There are lots of examples of this; we all have countless anecdotes to muster.
But its more than mere anecdote: the entire field of Behavioral Finance backs it up. (More on this later)
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But more than that, my theory is there are so many myths and misunderstandings about money.
It is important to understand what it is and what it does for you. Sounds simple, but it's more complicated than many realize.
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They find it easier to "just say no" then consider someone's circumstances + goals in order to make a good decision.
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No. 1. Spend less than you earn;
No. 2. Prioritize investing for your future;
No. 3. Figure out what matters, and spend accordingly.
ritholtz.com/2020/01/kawhi-…
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And you can ignore those annoying Calvinists + their silly ideology.
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"Spend less than you earn"
You can spend money, but within the framework of your salary + family budget.
Don't go deeply into debt (a mortgage is OK); be reasonable and balanced.
But goddammit, go live your life.
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"Prioritize investing for your future"
Obvious: Invest regularly via Dollar Cost Avg, max out your 401k + match, have an emergency savings, etc.
You cannot do that if you are in debt. But it does not mean you cannot have a cup of coffee or drive a new safe car.
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Your professional growth, your spouse, your overall lifestyle matters. Stay healthy. Keep adding to your skill sets.
ritholtz.com/2019/04/buy-yo…
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"Figure out what matters, and spend accordingly"
WHAT MATTERS
You don't have to "Keep up with the Jones" or live on the Hedonic treadmill. Recognize instead that money is a tool that buys security and satisfaction.
SPEND ACCORDINGLY
ritholtz.com/2019/07/a-mode…
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My advice to Kawhi Leonard, whose $103 million NBA contract is dependent upon his body being healthy, is to go buy a new, safe car.
With that sort of money at stake, driving around in a 20 year old SUV is simply reckless.
ritholtz.com/2020/01/bbrg-s…
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Once you get past basic security & needs it is much less important.
pnas.org/content/107/38…
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That's a good way to spend your money.
qz.com/1503207/a-nobe…
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He explains why work and stress in your 30s + 40s is normal, and Happiness is something you work towards.
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Adaptability is why the "big new TV" eventually becomes just "the TV."
ritholtz.com/2018/01/mib-to…
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Imagine if this was not the case: we would carry every setback with us for the lest of lives. It would be debilitating
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We adapt to Larger TVs, houses, automobiles etc.
Experiences, on the other hand, changes who you are as person, connects you to other people, and provides more enduring satisfaction and enjoyment.
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"Figure out what matters, and spend accordingly."
ritholtz.com/2020/01/forget…
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“I will try to spend it as irrationally as possible.” (He won for his studies of how irrational people are with money, making it especially ironic - because its true)
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Go enjoy your weekend, and spend your money on whatever will bring you happiness and life satisfaction.
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