Spoiler: The antidote to cynicism is to hold on to your principles. So the way to respond to a cynical comment is by making a principled comment.
First, a bit about cynicism and how it destroys democracy.
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This actually isn’t hard to do. See this quotation from Levitsky & Ziblatt (How Democracies Die)⤵️
From @TimothyDSnyder: Russian oligarchs don’t deny that their government is corrupt. The people can see that. Instead they say that all governments are corrupt and that it’s just as bad in the west.
Cynicism (all people are corrupt) leads directly to nihilism. People disengage because it doesn't matter who wins or who is in charge.
The Fox-Trump-GOP promotes cynicism. Mulvaney’s “Get over it” was the ultimate in cynicism.
Politics degenerates into “us v. them politics,” which gives the would-be autocrat a built-in fully manufactured crisis. See ⤵️
That's the quickest way to cynicism and making it actually true that "all politicians are the same" so it doesn't matter who you vote for.
Of course they are imperfect. They're made up of human beings.
As a criminal defense [appellate] lawyer, I spent much of my legal career fighting for criminal justice reform. Trust me: I see the problems in the institutions.
Sometimes cynicism arises from entitlement. People born after the Civil Rights and women’s rights movement inherited (for the first time in American history) an expanding liberal democracy.
If you find yourself paralyzed by shock and outrage, it may be because you bought into a myth that goes like this: history is a river and you don’t have to paddle. . .
(Ideas inspired by @TimothyDSnyder and expanded in my Susan. B. Anthony thread)
Wrong! We have to paddle.
I suggest answering a cynical comment with a principled comment.
“I know lots of principled people. You don’t know ANY? People with principles also go into politics, too. You just have to distinguish those who have principles from those who don’t."
I like this too ⤵️
A few years ago I sat next to a very liberal young man who assured me the entire government is corrupt.
Flawed democratic institutions are better than no democratic institutions.