As for lifestyle, the elder brother was rich and the younger one was doing okay in their respective life.
The Spirit smiled mysteriously while handing over coconuts to elder brother and genuinely while giving them to younger brother.
1. I wish to help anyone who approach without turning them away - he got wealth beyond his comprehension
1. Due to his negative thinking, he's sceptical and believed tht nothing good might come of it, so wished for his wife to vanish - she did!