In the World BC (Before CoronaVirus), I was on this day supposed to be ending a 3-day residential w/ @cisweb on the Rupture-Repair Cycle. Knowing that making up matters more than messing up helps everybody relax. So here are a few of the pieces we might have explored. 1/5
“The rupture is rarely, if ever, the important part. The repair is critical. In fact, ruptures are actually opportunities to strengthen relationships.” 2/5 psychedinsanfrancisco.com/importance-rup…
“It was as if I was whipping her with my words. I was beyond exasperated and then realized that what I cannot stand to see in my daughter is what I cannot stand to see in myself.” 3/5 psychalive.org/imperfect-pare…
This new book on the Rupture-Repair Cycle will be out soon from @childinmind & her scientist colleague Ed Tronick. I am thinking how to help bring their insights to the UK public. @paulinescott222 @TIGERS_UK 4/5 amazon.com/Power-Discord-…
There will be many tense households across t UK &world just now. Not all families resolve tension by finding their way back to Repair. Whatever you can do to boost that capacity for those around you will help ensure our childrn don’t carry emotional consequencs frm ths time. 5/5
