Thread by @TaniaAMarshall

How to drive a #narcissist #crazy: 1. everything is black or white w/them. Try a compromise. They will get triggered. 2. Your independence. They can’t stand this. Be independent. Think freely have your opinions & viewpoints. Exert your independence their their sense of superior

Will be threatened. You have the right to your own opinions, feelings thoughts. This drives them crazy. They now can’t be in control. 4. Accomodation of your preferences. They can’t stand this as they need to choose your vacation, your dinner at the restaurant

There is no Accomodating your feelings your opinions your wishes. It is their way OR the highway. 5. Change. Change interrupts their fixed narrative or agenda. They hate this 6. Ultimatums. If you have given your #narcissists an ultimatum they are now backed up against a wall.

They will rage, threaten and abuse you because they cannot #control you. Remember they don’t carry about you. They don’t ask about you, unless they want to use the information against you. #psychology

You should NOT have to teach them how to be considerate loving and kind. Know what you are dealing with. You shouldn’t have to teach them to be respectful of your independence and freedom of speech. You should have to teach them #boundaries. They haven’t grown up and

#Therapy often does not work on them. Be careful out there. People can make you or break you 💕✨#therapy #Mentalhealth #clusterB