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Narcissistic abuse is all pervasive, across all areas, affects all involved with a #narcissist. It involves a wide variety of manipulative tactics, is longstanding, highly abusive, coercive, sophisticated, subtle, of long duration, highly controlling, utilzes #narcissistic agents
It is used overtly or covertly by the narcissist or their 'agents'. It is designed to attack your independence, autonomy, to #control you, to break you down because it makes them feel better, period!#Gaslighting works under the guise of caring about you. It is designed to
Get you to deny your own #reality. This is. It loving. Many other manipulative tactics are involved. They are also not loving or kind. A narcissist recruits an entire community to do it's dirty work for him/her. The Narcissitic agents are also part of the problem. It is usually
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1.Great vid & certainly agree yet very difficult sometimes when we think juries get it wrong as in the OJ Simpson case as an example. And the Casey Anthony case. Two highly publicized case examples where the public overwhelmingly disagreed with jury verdicts …
2. In each of those cases, which were both murder cases and not civil trials where the burden of proof is much higher - reasonable beyond doubt vs preponderance of evidence - there were other factors in play that determined the outcome of these baffling verdicts…
3. I watched almost every minute of both trials. In the Simpson case, race was weaponized by the defense in a city still reeling from police brutality violence against African Americans. As a former resident of Los Angeles I can confirm there was indeed a race war occurring…
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@ICARSBanRandS @NeuroClastic @unsilenced_now So this ONLY applies to children??? I'm still traumatized 8 yrs after being brutally manhandled & physically harmed due to my #EhlersDanlosSyndrome after going to a hospital for 'HELP' while having what I THOUGHT was a panic attack but I now know was a meltdown caused by ...
@ICARSBanRandS @NeuroClastic @unsilenced_now undiagnosed autism. I only discovered a year ago that I'm autistic & what's been happening to me are MELTDOWNS. After I got there, the bright fluorescent lights, painful hard furniture & COLD in the psych ER where I found out the hard way that, once u're there, u can't leave ...
@ICARSBanRandS @NeuroClastic @unsilenced_now until a psychiatrist gets around to seeing you, which was about 17 hours that time although nobody would tell me how much longer I had to wait & they take all ur clothes & shoes & have no pillows or blankets; just a one-ply hospital gown open in the back and non-slip socklets ...
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Therapist Tip for your #mentalhealth: How to spot a #narcissist We are in a #narcisstic #psychopathic and #sociopathic epidemic. Look for these 🚩🚩1. Mirroring your interests 🚩 2. Love Bombing you at first. Feels like bliss 🚩3. Early obsession. Go too fast in any relationship
Fall in love with you in first week(s). 🚩4. Feels too good to be true 🚩5. They are idealising you & you can do no wrong. You are perfect for them. This is the 'honeymoon' period 🚩6. Them comes drama out of the blue 🚩 7. They come from a position of "how am I?" #psychology
Wanting others attention 🚩They do not care about how you are or how your day was. Do they ever ask you how you are, how was your day, say "that sounds like a tough day for you", show genuine empathy) Watch for 'false' empathy. Does the conversation always go back to them? #narcs
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The #narcissist cannot exist without their #narcissisticagents (flying monkeys), who do their work for them, participating in #narcissisticabuse by proxy. There is alot of information out there on narcissists, but little on their ‘agents’. What type of person becomes an agent?
People who resonate with a #narcissists victimhood or grievance, are highly Suggestible, easily manipulated, socially naive, lack #boundaries have blind trust in the narcissist, need a leader or to be led, are easily deceived and used. All narcissists use their audience
& people as a means of #control Their agents are not ‘human’ to them. They are viewed an ‘objects’ for their own agenda. They gossip, deceive & lie to their Agents. They may bring them on board for their ‘cause’. If an agent accepts, they are agreeing to underlying rules #Control
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#Narcissism thread 🧵 15 (more) questions to ask yourself if you are questioning whether someone is a #narcissist
1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
Are they #superior? For e.g. A non lawyer preaching to a lawyer about law. 2. Are they #defensive? Do they seem only interested in trying to prove that they are right & you are wrong, in a defensive mode? 🚩They are #competitive not co-operative. Co-operation is a must #healthy
3. Do they demand #attention from you? For e.g., insisting on having the conversation when it’s convenient for them only &/or use emotional #manipulation to ensure conversation happens on ‘their’ terms? They may not answer the question, go off topic, deflect, defensive, accuse 🚩
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1. #Narcissism Thread: What is the quickest way to tell if someone is a #narcissist? 🚩Raise a concern with them. Hands down this works Every. Single. Time. #Narcissists are unable to manage conflict. By conflict, I mean be cooperative & problem solve concerns or disagreements
2. I mean being held accountable or addressing a concern with the genuine interest in resolving it. Resolving issues are important to healthy relationships, #trust boundaries & safety. When issues remain unresolved between #Psychology #abused
3. Couples, family members, groups, organisations, it leads to #resentment, #anger & #contempt. This is why: Say you raise an issue with your partner that’s of a concern to you. Your partner disagrees 🚩 & it doesn’t seem like she is listening to you. 🚩You keep trying to express
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The Toxic #Narcissist Cycle of Abuse: 5 Stages Thread
Stage 1:
Love Bombing & Lying:
Your #abuser lies to you from the start, convincing them-self/selves & YOU that you are liked, included, adored, loved & respected. Your #boundaries are respected & you are overly welcomed
In this phase, you will put on their ‘glasses’, be overmedicated on their empty promises, #future faking, deception & lies 👉🏻 all leading to fake #hopeism. They make you wear their glasses whereby you ‘view’ them as from #heaven & ‘saving you’, being ‘right’ or on the right side
You will #believe what they are selling you as they are now your ‘real family’, your #soulmate your ‘twin flame’,
your ‘neurokin’, your ‘transautlet’ your ‘otherkin’ (insert any propaganda) #family You become the centre of their life/group, organisation initially 🚩You find
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How to drive a #narcissist #crazy: 1. everything is black or white w/them. Try a compromise. They will get triggered. 2. Your independence. They can’t stand this. Be independent. Think freely have your opinions & viewpoints. Exert your independence their their sense of superior
Will be threatened. You have the right to your own opinions, feelings thoughts. This drives them crazy. They now can’t be in control. 4. Accomodation of your preferences. They can’t stand this as they need to choose your vacation, your dinner at the restaurant
There is no Accomodating your feelings your opinions your wishes. It is their way OR the highway. 5. Change. Change interrupts their fixed narrative or agenda. They hate this 6. Ultimatums. If you have given your #narcissists an ultimatum they are now backed up against a wall.
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#narcissists don’t know ‘who’ they are are. They have ‘identity’ problems. That’s why they have to tell you who they are all the time. They will ‘rage’ if you challenge them. The biggest population of narcissists are bosses, CEOS, in television, leadership, activists, influencers
They love to be on camera doing the ‘right’ thing for the children or the animals. But there is another side to them. Be careful. Having boundaries is critical. Covert narcissists are subtle, not obvious. You cannot argue with a narcissist. Their job is to get you to ‘doubt’
your sanity or deny your reality or reality itself. Anyone that causes you to doubt yourself, your reality, your feelings, your thoughts, is NOT a friend. Detox yourself. #psychology #narcissism #arrogance #contempt
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I tweeted recently about abusers who hide behind their charitable giving. This is important because it’s how abusers fool others by covering their tracks.

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#coercivecontrol
“ X couldn’t possibly be Y because they have done so much for charity “

We may think that nobody would be naive enough to believe that someone who is charitable can’t also have an agenda for their largesse but it appears plenty believe that only good people *do charity*
Yet in the sentencing remarks in the Tom Meighan trial, the judge said: “ I could send you to prison today. Of course, I take account of your personal mitigation, the charitable work that you have done in the past, and your prompt guilty plea.”
Link: judiciary.uk/wp-content/upl…
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Today is World Narcissist Abuse Awareness Day.

Not all abusers who #coercivecontrol are #narcissists but a significant number are, so it’s useful to understand not only what narcissism is, but also that it falls on a continuum.

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#WNAAD
Many personality psychologists believe that there are five core personality traits. These are often referred to as the "Big 5" personality traits:
- extroversion
- agreeableness
- openness
- conscientiousness
- neuroticism

More here:
verywellmind.com/the-big-five-p…
#narcissism
Being on the extremes of any of these traits is not healthy.

Benign narcissists have milder versions of the patterns observed in #narcissism:
- Entitlement
- Low levels of empathy
- Arrogance
- Superficiality
- validation seeking
- overly sensitive to criticism
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OMG - a masterpiece of slippery gaslighting.

Pseudo- contrition, self justification and evasiveness in #DominicCummings conference.

Making his situation fit an acceptable narrative.
The ‘ I’m not sure I can drive to London in case it’s not safe but it’s safe to drive a one hour round trip with wife and child in car to test out my eyesight’ justification is bizarre.
The ‘ I don’t want strangers to get #COVID19 but don’t mind if my 17 year old niece gets it ‘ is bizarre.
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Small thread on my take on this Corona crisis and lessons for Us. Hope you find this interesting!

By now Corona virus has infected almost all countries worldwide and killed more than 3,20,000 people which is going to increase.

#Covid_19
Many countries have been in full or partial lockdown since February with a forecast of it to continue for several months. Economy has fallen everywhere, man’s spirit is battered and still we are fighting against this deadly virus.

#corona #lifelesson #pandemic #nature
If you notice, mankind has seen worst pandemics in the last 20 years – SARS, Avian flu, Swine flu, MERS-CoV, Ebola and now Corona. Add to this, new and emerging diseases like KFD, Chikungunya, Nipah, Lassa etc. What could be the reason?

MAN HIMSELF.

#human
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1/ THREAD: Body Language Analysis No. 4428-T: Donald Trump & Nancy Pelosi shaking hands (PHOTO) • #BodyLanguageExpert #BodyLanguage #DonaldTrump #Nonverbal #EmotionalIntelligence #NancyPelosi #Narcissist #PhysicalAbuse #ImpulseControlDisorder #Objectification #Misogyny
2/ The above image was taken on 20 January 2017 — at Donald Trump's inauguration.
3/ Note the manner in which Donald Trump is shaking Nancy Pelosi's hand:

• Pulling her hand dramatically toward his torso (probably touching his chest/jacket)
• Bending her wrist at a sharp angle (even if you're an 18-year-old athlete, can be painful, esp. if it's sudden)
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1/ Look what arrived by mail today. Watch for a ritual burning at the end of this thread.

A thread tweeting quotes from "The Power of a Whisper" (TPOAW), by unrepentant sexual predator, bully, and con-man Bill Hybels, who is still being protected by @GLNsummit & @WillowCreekCC
@GLNsummit @WillowCreekCC 2/ Dedication Page: "To @DickDeVos & Betsy, & Ron & Sharon VanderPol--Only on the other side will the four of you know how much your friendship & support have meant to the Hybels family & to the global Willow family"

~Bill Hybels, "The Power of a Whisper", 2010
3/ I note that @glnsummit board chairman billionaire Dick Devos, to whom Bill dedicated this book, has overseen Global Leadership Network's ongoing cover-up of Bill Hybels' sexual crimes since 2014.

tweeting quotes from "The Power of a Whisper", Bill Hybels, 2010
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@francescatututu There’s an inherent problem with the political climate/structure that makes Trump difficult to deal with: He is a hyper-exaggerated manifestation of everything that already existed in politics. Politicians are dishonest? Trump is pathologically dishonest……1/
@francescatututu ……Politicians are self-interested? Trump is pathologically self-interested. Politicians are ego driven? Trump is pathologically ego-driven. Politicians are corrupt? Trump’s corruption is unrivaled…. 2/
@francescatututu Regardless of whether it is by calculated design (sociopathy)…. or by reflexive/reactive, self-preservational, reality/history revising gaslighting…..we often see a three-part dynamic where 1) Trump seizes upon a weakness, issue, or occurrence,…..3/
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Asked by Tom Cotterill - Does user-centred design fuel narcissism? As a consultant for many companies, I come up against people who are constantly complaining about leaders being narcissistic. It's surprising how as a UX industry we have to be naturally compassionate and
empathetic towards our users but some people struggle to show the same empathy and open-mindedness towards their peers.
linkedin.com/feed/update/ur…
Every action triggered have a backstory. Some of the stories are as follows.
1) Its the result of Steve Jobs Pseudo Corporate
Culture, not the way he actually was but the way he was projected in promotions & movies.
2) Art is about Attitude but UX is not, although aesthetic UI design is about attitude. Some goes with skeuomorphic & other be with flat. In flat too the trend keep changing.
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THREAD: Body Language Analysis No. 4321: Donald Trump and The Queen - Nonverbal & Emotional Intelligence #DonaldTrump #QueenElizabethII #Queen #Narcissist #NoEmpathy #BodyLanguageExpert #BodyLanguage #EmotionalIntelligence #WalkingInFrontOfTheQueen #TurningHisBackOnTheQueen #EQ
1/ On Friday, Donald Trump visited briefly with Queen Elizabeth II. Royal protocol dictates that one should never walk in front of the Queen, nor should you ever turn your back to her. The American President managed to do both - after he had kept her waiting for fifteen minutes.
2/ It may seem obvious to most people that etiquette is profoundly important when one visits royalty. And the next time you drop by Windsor Castle, you'd be would be well-advised to practice and prepare.
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