Therapist Tip: Learn the language of ‘gaslighting’. 🔥Gaslighting IS the ‘denial’ of reality🔥1. “I never said that” 2. “You didn’t say that” 3. “I never did that” 4. “That didn’t happen” 5. “I didn’t go anywhere” (after ghosting you) 6. “You are crazy” 7. “You are a fraud”
8. “You must be forgetting things” 9. “You aren’t remembering it right”. 10. “You have a bad memory”. 11. “You need to get help” 12. “You are making that up” 13. “You are fabricating lies” 14. “It’s your fault” 15. “They all agree with me” 16. “You always remember things wrong”
17. “If you weren’t so…then I wouldn’t have to…” 18. “You made me do it”. 19. “Look what you made me do”. 20. “You always take things the wrong way” 21. “You’re imagining things” 22. “I wouldn’t have done that to you” 23. “You need help” 24. “Why are you always so defensive?”
25. “You make stuff up in your head” 26. “How dare you accuse me of that!” 27. “You made that up” 28. “You’re overthinking 29. “You are wrong” 30. “The Bible, x, y, z, says…” 31. “You’re overreacting” 32. “You’re psycho” 33. “I didn’t do anything wrong” 34. “It’s all your fault”
35. “I didn’t abuse or mistreat you at all”. 36. “Why would you think that?” 37. “Can you hear yourself? You sound crazy” 38. “It didn’t happen that way” 39. “Are you sure that’s what happened?” 40. “It’s not my fault you feel…” 41. “You’re gaslighting me”
42. “You’re upset over nothing” 43. “You didn’t see that” 44. “I didn’t hear that” 45. “It’s all in your mind” 46. “You must be confused” 47. “No one else will tell you the truth” 48. “You don’t know what you’re taking about” 49. “You know you sound insane right now, right?
The ‘eyes’ thread for beginners 101: Many people are finding my ‘eyes’ tweets helpful, interesting, fascinating & disturbing. I was trained in this during my post-Masters externship. As the world deteriorates & more people become harmful, it is imperative you learn
about the eyes, facial affect or expressions, inappropriate facial affect that does not match content & context, #bodylanguage & forensic statement analysis. People cannot control their #subconscious behaviors & words, ‘leaking’ out #psychological information about themselves
This is known as ‘leakage’. First off, non verbal body language including the eyes & statement analysis is not something the ‘subject’ can control. This is ‘leakage’ or ‘tells’. The first thing you need to do is study 7 basic #emotions & what true facial expressions look like.
#Justice@TamePunk has been served and I have Been officially recognised by the Artorney General as a ‘Victim of Crime’ as the ‘primary Victim’. Never give up your fight for justice from your #abusers. This has occurred for a period of 10 years, with no end in sight & involves
A small group Of people whom I know the names of. May they face consequences in the future. I am not allowed to speak of details at this time, but suffice to say recognition of this #crime is healing & a part of my recovery. Thank you to the Attorney General
To Victims of crime for recognition, support, empathy, assistance & compensation, including ongoing support, reimbursement of costs and more. Thank you to all Police Officers involved, including forensics. I am most grateful. I am living proof you can make your abuser responsibl
Make sure you know #Narcissist#ASPD#clusterB secrets🤫 Here are top secrets they keep from you👇
🚩1.They go through your stuff (your phone, your drawers, your computer, your cupboards, your home your personal belongings, your social media, your emails) when you’re not looking
🚩2. They video, record/take photos of you without your knowledge or take your online materials
🚩3. They watch you, stalk you, get others to watch, stalk and keep tabs on you, either off-line or on-line
🚩4. They are ‘actors’, have personas, act all tough, strong & independent
In reality, they need people or followers to manipulate.
🚩5. They’re constantly looking for ways to appear smarter than they really are
🚩6. They put people down, degrade people, gossip, control people around them, the narrative or look for ways to bring conversation back to
If gender clinicians were trained in #autism#adhd#aspergers they might understand the multitude of factors to be considered in gender Dysphoria: PCOS, emotional immaturity (3 or more years behind peers), fear of change and uncertainly, theory of mind issues, slower processing
Working memory, a spikey cognitive profile, a late diagnosis or no diagnosis, social naivety & gullibility, interoceptive, Alexythymia, sensory processing issues, proprioception issues, social & communication issues, literal concrete black & white thinking, executive function
Issues, fixations & obsessions, OCD, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, anxiety, depression, taking things literally, high likelihood of sexual abuse or sexual violence, trauma or PTSD, higher chance of psychosis, Synaesthesia, a sense of feeling different & not fitting in
Mind control deprogramming: YOU have been programmed since childhood 1. Question you religious upbringing 2. Question MSM, SM & marketing. 6 corporations own All of the media 3. Question ‘established’ science & research 4. Reduce unnecessary consumption of information
5. Become less egocentric by doing the work on yourself 6. Stop giving your power away to authority 7. Learn to critically think & reality test 8. Question the education system 9. Start meditating & get your mind & your own thoughts back. Become aware of your programs, thought
Patterns, thought addictions, feelings addictions, behavioral patterns. Decide which ones you want to change. Decide what new ways you want to be. Start practicing new healthy patterns.
Therapist Tip: 1 in 44 children are now born with #autism A core theme in many #autistic#aspergers#adhd individuals is self hatred or self-loathing, in both the diagnosed & undiagnosed. Many are unaware they are #neurodivergent Many are misdiagnosed or have missed diagnoses
Those who were late diagnosed (after kindergarten) are included. A common theme is growing up feeling 'different', 'not fitting in', being bullied, not being accepted, 'feeling like an alien', not understanding oneself, confusion, negative self-esteem, #adhd#selfesteem
a lack of friends, family of origin issues, difficulties communicating, being misunderstood & #trauma They may have ptsd from childhood, developmental trauma, have been bullied and/or abused. They often feel as though something is inherently wrong with them (shame & guilt) #PTSD