Therefore, you cannot assert that human "Patriarchy" is a top-down, aggregate, and entirely socially constructed system without evidence.
If you want to change it, you have to properly understand it first. Denying reality doesn't help.
You're just demonstrating the incredible power that sexual selection has to shape behavior.
You're contradicting your own point.
I don't know how anyone could live with that level of dissonance, but it's clearly possible, somehow.