Weird that Rian & @RationalMale are talking about whether AJA & I are “truly red or purple”
More interesting, the creation of TFA came up.
TFA was me breaking through my anger phase & building frame.
Then I found out my wife had cheated on me 9 years earlier.
As Rian said, the white picket fence was a lie & I now had to find who I was without that perfect “Disney story”.
So I did & have owned it since.
Nope, I stayed because the 9 years after her cheating were solid & all of my needs were met.
Still, the hate was there so after a faithful decade, I smashed some strange 6 months after finding out what she did .
Fairytale was murdered, all that was left was reality.
She stayed & what you see now is the result.
Together by choice, not obligation.
As W&S said, I’m no RP prototype.
I’m your average man with the same flaws & challenges as everyone else.
The Family Alpha is a product of the Red Pill fully dissolving & the fantasy being torn from my heart.