Thread by @HunterDrewTFA

Today I’m celebrating 10 years of marriage.

I can’t help but feel for those who’ve followed the storyline below

I’m going to share 10 pieces of advice for maintaining a quality marriage which will serve as fuel for growth vs being a ball & chain which gets you fucked in the ass

https://twitter.com/damianprosa/status/1030053831156162560

1. Do not compromise your authentic self for any reason, ever.

So many men stop being who they were before marriage because “getting the girl” means settling down.

* Don’t sell your boat/motorcycle.
* Don’t lose your passion
* Don’t stop shooting guns
* Don’t be a neutered man.

2. Have great sex, often.

Familiarity is the antithesis to attraction.

Mix up your moves as she needs to be fucked often & hard.

If you can’t remember the last time you left her leaking & quivering, you’re doing it wrong.

Your chick needs to walk bow legged from time to time.

3. You each need to have a “thing”.

Something which gets you out of the house & something you do *not* do together.

You two need to miss eachother.

You both need to develop as individuals as well as a couple.

This gives you both something to talk about at the dinner table.

4. Laugh, often.

I talk shit, a lot of shit & I don’t take life very seriously.

I get my wife rolling, I’m talking legit belly laughing pretty much daily.

We have too few breaths to be stoic in all of our dealings, have fun with your time.

You & your girl should be jokesters.

5. Go on adventures.

Like your children, your woman needs your presence, not presents.

You must experience the entire spectrum of feelings with this woman.

Go out into the world together & experience the beauty, fear, & awe it provides

Do more than go to Denny’s every Sunday

6. Maintain a standard physically, mentally, & spiritually.

Don’t allow familiarity to create complacency.

You both must maintain a level of fitness, intelligence, & joy.

Nobody wants to fuck a fatty

Nobody loves someone who cares more about social media & MSM than living.

7. Have great sex

(Yes, it’s important enough to list twice)

Missionary before bed after the kids go to sleep is *not* enough.

Change up location, time, & positions

Few people who are physically satisfied go looking for “adventure”.

You both need to rock the other’s world.

8. Know your roles

Marriage does not create a “level playing field”

You are the man, you need to lead

She is the woman, complementary, your council not your peer

She fills the mold you create

Harpy/nagging wives are products of weak husbands

Bear your burden of performance

9. Keep divorce on the table

People won’t like this one, I don’t care.

The option of walking needs to always be there.

You don’t bring it up every argument, but never feel you’re in a life sentence.

The two of you need to remain together out of choice, not obligation

Want it

10. Frame > everything else

You create your reality

You create the standard through example

You decide how your life & world operates, not society.

Your marriage is impenetrable to MSM’s influence.

Your marriage is untouchable because you make it so, some will hate

Fuck ‘em

References:

1 thefamilyalpha.com/2018/08/03/the…
2 thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/cre…
3 thefamilyalpha.com/2016/03/24/you…
4 thefamilyalpha.com/2016/02/15/enj…
5 thefamilyalpha.com/2016/08/24/a-s…
6 thefamilyalpha.com/2018/06/07/get…
7 thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-…
8 thefamilyalpha.com/2017/07/12/mrs…
9 thefamilyalpha.com/2016/01/10/the…
10 thefamilyalpha.com/2018/04/16/mar…