he swore that it had no sexual harassment problems. he was ready to swear that it didn't
all the men were ready to say the same
then he talked to the women in his department
EVERY ONE OF THEM TOLD HIM THERE WAS ABUSE OF POWER
the thing is, I believe him. I do think he didn't know
BUT THIS IS NO LONGER ACCEPTABLE
who you defend
who you provide cover for
whose actions you excuse
we. will. hold. you. accountable
if you don't do that, we'll assume you knew. because the truth is that you SHOULD have known
and when you talk to women, don't immediately provide a character for your guy friend, you know? don't say "XYZ is such a great guy, isn't he? how was your date?"
let women know they can be trusted to be honest with you. make it clear that your stance is to believe women
(going on the assumption that you actually care about not having creeps in your friend network)
sick sick sick