Ending your life doesn't stop the pain, it just passes it on to someone else. It's not over until God says it is Over.⛱
You folks always think you have more troubles than everyone else. U clearly don’t. Majority are merely battling with the what they think is failure because of financial problems or lack of fulfillment. Please be thankful you’ve got sound health & U may ruin that too with worry.
If you live in Nigeria and can still feed honestly and take care of your family to the best of your ability, know that you are a success already. Society may not celebrate you because you are not a thief but know that people like me value your courage, perseverance and patience.
If only we stop comparing ourselves to other people or stop trying to measure up to other people’s unrealistic expectation expectations. What we deem an emergency in most cases is not an emergency to other people. Manage your expectations and find yourself. U’re your first love.
Being a Male requires no talent. It is nature. But being a Man takes sacrifice and resilience. Same goes for being a Virtuous and intuitive Woman/Mother/Wife as it transcend being a Chick/Female once you take that bold step to be responsible for others for the rest of your life.
So anytime you find yourself in a serious hitch or trouble while on that journey, don’t fret or be despondent. Know that you are in a battle that’s already been fought and won. What you are going through is a foreshadow of the battle of the ages. U Win still regardless. Fear Not.
I’m certain of this because I have been there. If I can survive it you can as well no matter how long it takes. The fact that you can’t figure out a solution means God doesn’t want to share His Glory with any Man. Let go and let God. Exercise your Faith. He never fails.
Troubles never last. Just put yourself in the shoes of Christ and find your locus. Are you carrying a cross? Know that you will soon be nailed to it & die on it (it may get worse) but in the end you will Resurrect and die no more. You Win Still.
Just in case you still can’t relate, think of yourself as a caterpillar struggling to break out of the cocoon. It was designed that way so you build the strength needed to become a beautiful butterfly. Stop seeking short cuts & aid which might deform you towards the next stage.
