Thread by @John_Papa

RE: Drinking alcohol at tech conferences ...

No judgment zone ... I had a few conversations lately with some people who feel various ways about this topic. I fall on the side of those who don't drink (much) and do not feel comfortable at bar/after-hours events with alcohol

1/x

"You can just drink water and have fun". Yes, I can. But it's often not fun for me being in loud places, where it's hard to have a conversation (if at all), when I chose not to drink.

2/x

Also - after a full day + of event presentations, networking, and deep interactions a break is something I need. I need exercise to clear my mind. Rest. Mindshifting. Call my family. Prepare for the next day (mentally).

3/x

I go to events in large part to interact with people. The networking events are a big part of this. And when they facilitate conversations, I am there. This is where I listen and take notes to bring back to work.

4/x

Whether you choose to go or not, is entirely up to you and IMO there should be no judgment either way.

No pressure to go - or not go - to after-hours activities at tech conferences.

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Why am I speaking out? Because I've been asked why I don't go to the bar and after hour drinking events. Told "I'm not doing the right thing." And I know there are others who feel like I do.

I'm speaking out to say it is OK to go - or not go.

you do you

6/x

Be yourself.

Take advantage of networking at tech conferences - but at your own dosage and pace.

And know that you are not alone - whether you are 24/7 at a tech event or you are setting your own pace.

7/x

Offer support to others who see things differently.

Be inclusive and supportive.

it's OK to take time to unwind if you need it.

and most of all - you do you :)

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