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It is F!%k Cancer Friday.
I am happy to report my mom is still kicking cancer's ass and we have two more rounds of treatment to go until we get the clearest picture yet of how much ass kicking we have really done. We are feeling good and staying positive. Mom has been a trooper.
During the last couple weeks, I have gotten a bit more involved with certain cancer support groups and the like. It has helped me gain tremendous perspective and has helped me cultivate gratitude. In the last couple weeks I also had a friend inform me that his dad...
Has developed cancer & his prognosis is very hard to hear. He has a tough path before him. The way the news rocked his world... the fear... the anger... the frustration... now he is going through it all too. Another friend, 2 yrs younger than myself, was also diagnosed this wk
And he is shellshocked by the news. We spoke and hearing the same words fall from his mouth that fell from mine when my mother was diagnosed in Jan...it is surreal.
Cancer makes life surreal. It speeds it up and slows it down all at once. It is truly jarring.
But all of us are marching forward with cautious optimism. And we all have each other to talk to. Some folks with cancer may not want to talk about their problems with other ppl. And that's their choice. But having friends and family to see you through...
it really can ease the burden. A bit of encouragement, levity, a bit of commiseration... it helps. It makes it all feel less insurmountable and the perspective is priceless.
So, if you dont have cancer but know someone who does...
check in today. Just shoot a line, say hi. Offer a helping hand. Offer your time. Just listen as they talk, if that is the only thing you can do for your friend. Not all ppl with cancer want the same things or need the same things but it never hurts...
To reach out and say, Hey. I am thinking about you today and just want you to know - if you want to just vent for a few minutes about anything, I've got your back.

The little things in life, like a friend being generous with their time, is a beautiful thing.
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