Thread by @ArmaniTalks

Confidence is built thru:

1. Competency in skills.
2. Competency in dealing with people.

If you have 1, but not 2, then you'll feel a void.

If you have 2, but not 1, then you'll feel a void.

Master 1 & 2

You'll face a lot of uncomfortable feelings which will help you blossom

'So I can't just do one? I need both?'

Yep.

One without the other will have you feeling an empty void.

But there is a psychological reason as to why...

Humans crave to feel important.

It is one of the biggest desires out there.

So when you take away someone's importance, you hurt them deeply.

But you know what's worse?

'What?'

When you take away your own importance.

Which is why skills are so important.

Skills add value to your life.

People can take away your house, money, possessions.

But not the skills that you've learned.

Skills change your neural pathways & transform you into a new being.

Self image arises with that.

Now you feel important.

But all the skills in the world won't help if you are not able to work with people.

Humans are social creatures.

Therefore, another element of feeling important is being able to deal with people.

My rule?

Small friend circle & big acquaintance circle.

But do whatever works for you & your goals.

When you can deal with people, your skills become more meaningful.

And you enter the interaction as a HIGH VALUE human.

Confidence will follow.

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