Introducing, the "5 C's of Life Transformation" as outlined to me by phone by an old old timer of AA, James Houck,
The 5 C's of Life Transformation
They are, as follows:
2) Confession
3) Conviction
4) Conversion
5) Continuance
Confidence - winning the other person's, with a deeply held point of common interest.
Confession - ours, to them, about something costly, involving the way things were, what happened, & what it's like now..
leading to...
Continuance - the 5th C. Staying with. Watering and sunning the newly planted seed.
This, James explained, then tried to hammer home (I was kind of interviewing him for research purposes) the notion that the 5th C formed a circle of integrity around the whole thing
And when it was ignored or when people got lazy regarding their service to others with whom the new seed was planted, everything would fall apart, losing integrity, and here their point of reference was Jesus' parable of the sower.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parable_o…
Ebby T. of the Oxford Group, having himself undergone a change & transformation, went to his old friend Bill Wilson to share & to be helpful or of service to the Lord. Bill was so blown away by the change in his friend & it so shook his world that later that night..
Bill then ran into Dr. Bob, a proctologist of all things.. & the rest was history (a movement was born)
Ebby T.'s Oxford Group
Absolute Honesty
Absolutely Purity
Absolute Unselfishness &
Bill Wilson, however, was perfectly happy to lose his addiction to alcohol, but that was a standard that he knew that no one could live up 2 & he wasn't about to give up his cigarette smoking & womanizing, you see. James & I laughed at that one!
@Franklin_Graham
It's not a permissiveness, no it's the recognition that we are human & do & will sin, hopefully in lessor & lessor ways. But this notion that we must try to be good, misses the point
How many "good Christians" have become bland to be good, having lost their saltiness, their passion, their charm, & their joy. They put on wan smiles & nod, but they don't know how to love.