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Autogynephilic forced feminization is so insulting to me as a gay man. Gay men don’t call each other “faggots” or “sissies” when we have sex with each other. That is abusive and insulting. No gay man wants to play a caricature of a woman during sex.
No gay man wants to dress up in “women’s clothing” and be humiliated by another man. We try our utmost to un-feminize the passive role during sex. It has been a horrible stereotype imposed on us by straight men for ages that gay men are “feminine” during sex.
This fetish could only come from the mind of a sexist, homophobic man that equates femininity with womanhood, the passive gay male sex role with the expected straight female sex role, and both roles with humiliation and degradation.
Men with this fetish want to call it “queer”, but it’s just the same set of old heteronormative patriarchal sex roles that they invert onto themselves. Women are still humiliated. Straight men are turned “gay” by being “girly”. It’s all the same old story, just in drag.
