Here's a thread on this lesser known set of tactics:
“They don’t really care about you."
"Why do you listen to them?”
"You don't need them."
Soon the victim comes to distrust others.
The abuser erects barriers between the victim and the outside world and will become protective and domineering.
It is a form of control that replaces the victim's given name with a name chosen by the abuser.
The abuser isn't interested in genuinely knowing the person, but is on a hunt for information that can be easily exploited.
Unbeknownst to the victim, the abuser is collecting discreditable, humiliating, or vulnerable information that can be weaponized against them.
In the worst cases, abusers convince their victims they are demonically influenced and need the abuser's help to be delivered.
Spiritual teaching can be used to intimidate a victim.
1. Invasion of privacy.
2. Withholding help to force submission.
3. Controlling how the victim speaks to the abuser.
4. Forcing the victim to engage in humiliating behavior.
The victim slowly lose their agency - their ability to choose for themselves.
At the same time, the abuser is likely trying to establish the victim's trust in the abuser.
These twin processes serve the same goal of abusive control.