Why? Female Solipsism.
When she wants you, she'll build you up and make you feel like the greatest of men.
When she doesn't, she'll take it all back and make you feel like garbage.
Take women's claims about reality with a grain of salt.
If it benefits her, it's "true".
Only the MOTIVATION behind a woman's actions can be trusted to speak the truth, NOT her words.
When a woman is your girl, she tells you how great you are b/c she FEELS better about herself believing she's won a "high-value" man.
She wants to believe she's high-value, so she says you're high-value.
It's no more true than how "great" a man you were when she wanted you.
Women are solipsistic.
Men define your value. Not women.
Women only define your desirability.