Thread by @Victornkemjika

Divorced : Mr Ebi's Story is a pathetic One, It is a perfect example that : It is not just the men folk's who trick and con the women folks in marriage, It's a two way thing, here in Nigeria or any where else in the world !!!

Hear him!!!

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I have a personal issue I would like to share with you I have read your thread, I have always wanted to share it and get the best of advice, But have I kept it to myself.

I got married in 2015, Before marriage, My wife appeared to be a strong born again Christian, and she said..

she wanted to be celibate, that their would be no sex until after the wedding night , I obliged her and waited till after the wedding , Right after the wedding, I discovered that she wasn’t really into sex, But I thought I was not doing enough to make her want it, so I did more..

spice things up just to make her free with me and open up, after all, I'm her husband right and sex is an important part of marriage, well it didn't work !!!
After a month my wife told me she was pregnant, I was shocked at the news because we haven't really had sex, in the real..

sense of the word, so I requested that we go for a lab test to confirm,She took me to the lab where she claimed she did the test, and the lab guy confirmed she was pregnant, Expectedly I thought a pregnant woman does not see her period but in her case her period kept on coming...

It came the first month then the second month also, I became curious and disturbed, so I decide to take her to another hospital to be sure what was wrong, It was there I got the shocker of my life, the Doctor said she had fibroid, the Doctor also confirmed my fears she was not..

pregnant, however the doctor reassured us that it was possible to get pregnant with fibroid, after he spoke to both of us, the Doctor later asked me if my wife told me she had fibroid?, I said no and he said her fibroids were quite big and she ought to have known, that it is not

something that just happened. When I got home that Night, I asked her if she knew, she had fibroid, she claimed she never knew about it, and I let the matter go , because I love my wife, 3 months latter she was pregnant again!!! She started bleeding again, so we had to visit...

the Doctor, we ran a test and the doctor told us she had an ectopic pregnancy, That she had to have an operation to remove it or else it might take her life, We got this advice from the Abuja general hospital, The doctor said her fibroid tumor was growing in her uterus so the

implantation happened at the Fallopian tube, We expend huge some as she had to do a surgery to take of the Fallopian tube where the baby was growing, In order to stop the bleeding and save her, Doctor also advised we remove the fibroid, to the glory of God...

the doctor took out the fibroid successfully, 5 large tumors, after a while She recovered fully from the surgery and got well again.
How ever during the period we were battling with the ectopic pregnancy, her sister with whom she use to stay in ABJ had told me she had always

had issues with the fibroids long before we met,That she was happy I saved her sister from the trouble, apparently she didn't know her sister had been lying to me concerning her medical condition from then get go, when she was done talking I was shocked to my bones, my mind...

started calculating,Then it all made sense to me why she had always wanted to be a celibate, I spent close to a million on all these surgeries, when she became better I beckoned on to tell me the truth about her condition and to be honest with me, so we can go back to being...

husband and wife and my mind would be clear, because I was confused and I had so many questions that I needed answers to, I asked her If she knew she had these problems all along and never told me, She claimed she never knew, she cried and swore to prove her innocence, I was...

dumfounded, flabbergasted...,From that day, she lost me, From then on, every iota of trust I had for her vanished, I suddenly lost all interest for her.

To be continue by 3pm...

RT

I had to talk to some one, so I found solace in my Dad, I explained my findings to my father who was equally surprised, it is also note worthy to say that, immediately after I got married my wife she stopped attending those regular church programs she use to attend when we in...

courtship, I wondered what had changed her, these and many more made me seek solace outside, two years after our marriage I started having an affair, it didn't take long after I started seeing this new lady, That she got pregnant for me, and gave birth to a baby girl

before the birth of the baby I couldn't hide it from my wife, I told her every thing, and asked for her forgiveness, I also told my parents who were disappointed but had to understand that, I felt conned,deceived, and feared I might never have a child with her because, We did all

kinds of test, to be sure of what’s the reason for delay in child birth, Doctor's certified I was ok,and hers was a 50% chance of having a baby, With all these fears in mind and her lies, I strayed , well both families stepped in, and we settled...

Another Shocker ! , I failed to mention that my wife is a twin, She has a twin brother, Married with 5 kids, and before we got married, my wife told me she was 30 years of age, as at 2014, I was 35 by then that is suppose to mean that I am 5 years older than her right???

well, surprisingly her twin brother is 43 this year while am 40 now, how did find Out she actually older than me? Her twin brothers kids were in my house this year for the long holiday, and my wife was to celebrate her birthday, Her twin brothers eldest son is 16 years, and at..

one point, he said his father just clocked 43,Initially I thought the kid was joking, So I challenged him how sure he was,He said I could find out from the mum, I immediately put a call through to the brothers wife, and she confirmed her husbands age!!!

Who I'm I really married to, I thought to my self, this is way more than I bargained for, I was even sacred for my life, how can One woman lie so much in one life time, to the one she claims she love 😭😭😭😭😭

RT and follow I'll end the story in the Night by 6pm 📢

Cont...
Sorry for the late start,
RECENTLY in 2019, my wife started spending a lot of her time on her phone chatting away late into the night, One of those night I was able to get her password, so I'll see whats so important than sleep to my wife...

You won't believe it, I discovered she had another love interest, Her "so called ex", I realized they exchanged pictures, nude pictures and all, This ex is also married with kids, In one conversation the guy was regretting not marrying her and she was also regretting marrying me

I couldn't read any longer, I woke her up and we talked about what I just saw, She wept and pleaded for forgiveness and she asked me not to tell my family, I forgave her and also promised not to tell my family, but I was to find out latter, that she kept on seeing this "X"...

-secretly,
when then she turned 360, it became too much,because she was cheating with impunity, I challenged her, and reply was, since I got a child outside she was free to get her own man.

Since then it's been cold,it's almost a year now we made made love, or as much as sleep

in same room, she doesn't cook in the house , I eat outside I'm living in pains, I don't have joy I want out of this hell called marriage, Men also suffer!!!

Please advice men or women who use church as a bait to lure individuals into marrying them to to stop, don't go into marriage with lies, some how, some way, the truth will find its way to light and you Wil be out to shame.

Also men : the routine check for genotype/blood group is not enough any more, please do check for this fibroids and order health issues, and a fertility test for both of you won't be a bad idea.