At dinner the other night, we got onto the topic of mixed race marriages & stepdads.
My ex told her kids that, "in general, if an (ethnic minority) woman wants someone who will love & be good to her and her kids, she marries a white guy."
vs
White liberals and US media who would have you believe every white male is an angry, mean, racist & bigot?
My first wife was Taiwanese-born and had dated mostly white guys her entire life for the same reason. Her sister is also married to a white guy.
But that's not the "ground truth" when you look at actual mixed-race marriages with white men.
They only talk down to them and talk at them.
So they have no idea of what the reality is in their lives.
They only know the narrative.