the best way to manage noise is to eliminate it. you are better off deleting 90% of your alerts (the ones that don't align directly with user pain), moving to SLO-based alerting based on real user pain.
THE WORST THING you can do is accept defeat on this front, allowing alert spam to grow unchecked and unbounded, a fire hose that would kill any human that consumed it.
I guarantee you it is compoundingly harder if you don't. You cannot outsource understanding your systems.
People have relied on their pager spam to triage and debug systems problems for too long. This shift can be challenging.
Get you a better debugger. One that won't kill you.