But I am assuming women can have ninja tendencies too... lol
After traveling to 70+ countries… I can say with 100% complete confidence that the Ninjaness in the USofA rank at the top.
Anyway. . .
Use popular local and international apps, to meet new people.
Tell them you’re new in town or visiting and you’d love to experience the city like a local.
On that alone…
I’ve gone on soooooooo many dates! People genuinely love to show you their city and share through food, culture, music, etc.
Can it get lonely?
Hell yeah.. if you’re just sitting in your hotel room surfing the ‘net.
So find things to get into! Whether it’s a museum, a festival, or sitting at a coffee shop - just be OUT!
People hear my Southern American accent (although I don’t think I have a southern accent) and they want to know “where are you from?!”, “what are you doing here?!” etc.
Easy way to start conversations. . .
If you're 'shy' or hell, even 'funny acting', this is a great opportunity for you to push past your comfort zone and learn how to communicate with other strangers.
Whatever ‘good’ means to you.
The better you look, the better you feel, and the more you’ll attract great people and experiences to you!
I almost never leave the house without a lippy, highlighter, and mascara/lashes. #ButThatsJustMe
Make it very clear what you want and what you want to do upfront.
If you want to have sex or just go on a date - this is all up to YOU.
Just make it clear and stand firm in that decision.
Wait. I forgot everyone isn’t blessed with this.
Tell your friends, your parents, share your location, send his details to the Group Chat - whatever.
He may (or may not) be your Sweet-Boo - and that’s fine.
Just learn how to just ENJOY people and experiences.
At the very minimum, you’ll see something different, make a new friend, or have a cool story to tell.
I just met him walking through the market.
We chatted, had dinner, smoked hookah, and genuinely just vibed.
We walked around the market, got ice cream, and I took my ass home.