Thread by @themultibeast

American relationship horror story... THREAD.

26yo blue-pilled, nice-guy, man-boy meets beautiful 31yo hypergamous wall-hitter...

He hooks an emotional hose up to her to try to siphon the unconditional love he never got from his mom.

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He treats her as an “equal”, defers to her on most decisions, does as she asks, tries to please her any way he can, and is hypertensive of not being too aggressive with her sexually.

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Instead, she uses the hose to suck 10 years of stay-at-home lifestyle, 3 kids, and a pension of alimony from him. The comfort he provides for her, and his sexual neediness kills her sex drive (which she never admits to him because she’s unaware of this phenomenon herself)...

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and he spends all 10 years in a state of painful rejection and sexual frustration.

He suffers a decade of questioning his worth as a man and value as a human since the woman who committed to love him can’t bring herself to be intimate with him.

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This crushes him to near the breaking point. He finds it difficult to progress in his career, or show up strong for his kids because his most important relationship is a stressful obstacle course of emasculation and shame.

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As they go thru the process of separation and divorce,his objective value drops to that of a human ATM. He starts driving for Uber to pay for the house she’s now living in with the new man she’s fucking (enthusiastically), and the kids he loves so deeply but almost never sees.
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His own sons begin to resent from by listening to what mom says about him (overtly or covertly) and for not being around.

Each day he contemplates suicide but knows he can’t (because the kids), and wonders what the hell he did wrong.

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Meanwhile she collects checks from him each month to fuck Chad, who doesn’t care about his kids, all but guaranteeing that his children repeat the same cycle - doing what they can to please mom/wife, while suppressing their masculinity...

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(as that’s what they believe hurt mom to begin with).

His sons end up emotional man-boys themselves, with “man caves” in their houses and “honey do” lists, and say things like “happy wife happy life”...

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...having fully internalized what she is insisting through her behavior- that HER happiness is required for anything else to function properly. His entire world now revolves around her fleeting feelings.

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The kids grow up, selecting emotionally distant and demanding women that create obstacles to their intimacy (as this is what they recognize as love). They jump through these hoops for her sex, becoming unsexiest in the process.

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They treat her as an “equal”, defer to her on most decisions, do as she asks, try to please her, and are hypertensive of not being too aggressive with her sexually...

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The cycle of broken home repeats. They complain loudly and emotionally and their wife’s cry “abuse”. Their wives drift farther away and begin to open themselves up to tingles of Chad the pool boy, who’s been orbiting her on social media for a year.

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This is happening over and over because men are not teaching our boys about how to handle women. Women are not like us. They are rationals posing as romantics. While we are romantics posing as rationals.

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Women initiate 78% of divorces. This story is the NORM. This repetitive pattern of broken families is an epidemic, and it’s MEN’s fault. We’ve allowed the feminist agenda to demonize our own nature, confusing our leadership with oppression.
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We’ve believed that our masculinity is toxic, when in reality what is toxic is the absence of masculinity.

Educating boys at puberty about female nature is critical. Placing no value judgment here...

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But the reason this is a horror story is not because of who/what women are. It’s because boys are not told these truths. and they enter relationship with the expectation of consistent sex and unconditional love in exchange for commitment and provisioning.
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Bad things happen when expectations don’t match with reality.

A man’s relationship with a woman must constantly be managed. Date her, game her, be aware of “her feelings”, validate them for her, and help manage them, resisting the urge to solve them ...
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all of this is required to keep her hypergamy in check. Failure to do so all but guarantees a broken home for your children. The stakes are high.

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Boys need to know that a man can only handle this task if he’s achieved a state of “high value” for himself. This means physical fitness, financial solvency, emotional maturity, the respect of ones community, and a state of Not. Needing. Anyone.

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If you achieve this, then you can approach a relationship with an attitude of “what can I give?”, rather than “what can I receive?”.

As women primarily care about what you can give them, you’ll be ready to handle a relationship.

Until then... avoid monogamy.

Focus on you.