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Beth Steckler (she/her) Profile picture
@purplemamabear
Aug 17, 2020 • 4 tweets • 3 min read • Read on X
#DatingAgain #NotLikeRidingABike
I want to be in a relationship again but cripes sakes that means dating. My goal when my husband passed was to focus on my kids. They are adults now & less likely to kill any male I date. In fact they are a ‘little’ too invested I start dating. 1
A few years back I did invest in #EHarmony that old guy on the adds convinced me it was high quality & based on personality matches. Well I found that 2 be bull. A few matches here & there UNTIL my friends got access & added a bit to my bio. Not going say what they added 2/
but I got ALOT of matches. Needless to say I found #eharmony exactly like a bar ACCEPT no alcohol & I enjoy alcohol not so much the pick ups. I left eharmony. How does one start #dating during a pandemic 🤦🏻‍♀️? Is there somehow I can skip the dating & just be in a relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️3/
Entirely too much damn work & then there is an issue of my husband. He was a damn good guy, not perfect but a very good man. So many awesome traits. Any suggestions from women who have been on this path are SO welcomed #PademicDating #DatingAfterLoss 4/

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Aug 2
Walking through the healthcare system the last 26 years with my family I’ve experienced a lot of gaslighting. I’ve watched my family experience a lot of gaslighting.

It infuriates me.

My friend’s life is at risk right now due to gaslighting.

She is terrified of physicians 1
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She has always struggled with her menstrual cycle. Extremely heavy bleeding and clots.

It impacts her life. She can go through a 2
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She indicated she had & in fact had a friend go with because her NP kept telling her it was 3
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Jan 18
Care for those in #pain often infuriates me because they get very little, none and often labeled. There may be pockets where actual quality care occurs but more often than not I hear stories of #trauma. #HereditaryPancreatitis is a very painful disease. I have watched all my 1
family members struggle with this. It’s gut wrenching. It’s hard for adults but watching a child in such pain is indescribable 💔. I regularly talk to parents or am contacted by parents who are struggling to access pain care for their child with pancreatitis. Just heard from 2
a parent whose child with #hereditarypancreatitis - who is a toddler - NOT joking - was labeled a #drugseeker. Those were the words the mom stated the physician used. A #drugseeker at three. We need access & better quality of care. This only layers trauma on child & family. 3
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Nov 1, 2023
I just want to let out my frustrations w the #healthcare system & how assembly healthcare does NOT work. I think back about programs my kids went to. One being a renowned #painprogram. My focus was to assist in developing tools they could utilize in life to deal w #chronicpain 1
& their #illnesses. I wanted a #balance, I wanted a plan that was based on their individual needs. Their #pediatrician at 1st stated she had concerns w #program & not an #option for them. The #clinic called #pediatrician back saying they’d modify it for my kids. There really 2
were not a lot of options. The program promised individual care so off we went.
Nope started #titrating all #painmeds to align w time of #program vs Ind need. Then denied my daughter right to go to walk in #clinic when she was having issues saying this is what youth did 3
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May 24, 2023
Just doing some digging. #Pain is extremely nuanced. And the approach should also. W my kids #health & #pain there has been continued lack of knowledge, assumptions, & unwillingness to understand.
➡️#Anatomy of those that had #TPAIT & lack of understanding
by many docs 1
how this can impact #pain
➡️ Not identify or understanding impact of #MalabsorptionSyndrome
➡️Assumption that removal of #pancreas should immediately ‘solve’ issue of #ChronicPain
➡️ #GastricEmptying issues
➡️ Age of my kids (too young to have #pain)
➡️ Lack of 2
understanding & identification of #MedicalTrauma
➡️T3c #Diabetes
➡️ Impact of #NASH on #pain & options for #care

There are numerous factors that are critical in #Treating an #ChronicPain in #Individuals. They list of few listed above that are factors w my kids, have often 3
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May 24, 2023
Reviewing some #NorthDakota information surrounding #prescribed #opioids.
#OpioidPrescriptions #declined 34% from 2006 to 2020

Statement in poster ➡️ ‘Since 2007 every state has been working to address the #opioid epidemic & best practices are now understood’

Are they? 1
In the #Conclusion
➡️ nothing that addresses the #harm of #patients that struggled with #chronicpain. #Nothing re #outcomes of those #abandoned by #physicians & removed from #prescribed #opioids. Nothing about the looming disaster of last #physicians that #prescribe in 2 Image
#NorthDakota leaving. #Patients having no recourse. #NorthDakota absolutely has growth in area of serving those w #SUD yet in their pursuit to do this, they have #harmed those w #chronicpain & continue to exclude them in discussions or acknowledge these #harms. @hhsndgov 3
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May 24, 2023
#Apologies can be steps towards assisting in #healing #medical #trauma. When my daughter was in @SanfordHealth for 2 months, virtually #secluded bc of accusations by #hospital administration that she causes her diabetic crisis a #hospitalist & #diabetic counselor accused 1
her of ‘stashing’ #Insulin in room. All visitors searched. No items in room unless searched - camera in room 24/7 YET she is accused of injecting #Insulin. My daughter again attempted to educate on post #TPAIT. After additional days, the #Diabetic #Counselor came back & 2
#apologized acknowledging how hard it was to control her #diabetes. It’s hard control when she is at #Baseline but if she is sick nightmare. That #apology meant the world 🌎 to my daughter. She continued to work w this #counselor throughout stay & after. YET #PatientRelations 3 Image
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