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Don't remember who suggested this, but finally it's here & I'll share my thoughts

The Laws of Human Nature by @RobertGreene

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"If only we understood the roots of human behaviour" @RobertGreene
in Laws of Human Nature

Do you think we would have more protection? Against falling down or being plowed over?

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An interesting argument to understand our human nature before we as a race struggle to communicate

@RobertGreene in Laws of Human Nature

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Such an important note this.
By arguing, lecturing or cajoling people, you further resistance to your ideas.
@RobertGreene in Laws of Human Nature.

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"It is hard to learn from experience when we are not looking inward, at the true causes."

@RobertGreene in Laws of Human Nature

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"Rightness of your argument."

Can a phrase blow you away. This one did.

I'm right, is something I fall victim to often. A trap, a ego pleaser, as @RobertGreene says "pleasure principle in thinking."

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Powerful note on interpersonal relationships are tarnished for life because of unhealed childhood trauma.

When one difficult sibling is prioritised, or children suffer from an unstable marriage of parents.

@RobertGreene on what drives our irrational reactions

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"Being able to tame the Emotional Self leads to an overall calmness & clarity."
@RobertGreene in The Laws of Human Nature.

Not an easy ask, but definitely something to ponder over.

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Narcissism stems from our earliest influences.

A compelling argument why both introverts & extroverts can be narcissistic but it really shows it's ugly head in the mid 20s.

@RobertGreene in The Laws of Human Nature

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A narcissist is an "expert in using people."

As leaders they're controlling, as spouses they're abusive, self absorbed & generally have low self esteem.

To surface from failures, they reach for constant attention & validation.

How many people around us are like this?
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How easy is it to "cut off your incessant interior monologue?"

In establishing an empathetic state you must let go of all bias & pay attention to others. Letting go of judgement, is something I struggle daily with.

A deep narcissist never realises this.
You think this applies?
More & more I see people around me, paying attention to me.

It's sad, that few notice you when you've little to give but suddenly a position gives you more credibility.

I'd rather build relationships of respect. Where I try to understand you, where you try & test my values. Image
I often wonder, if there was no transactional element to my life, how many or few people would connect with me.

So few read, and fewer like to read threads on self help or entrepreneurship books.

Our lived reality is such a telling reflection on us & the society we live in...

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May 29, 2022
Relationship building is never easy. But it's skill that can take you far.

The lack of it, ie the skill can become a noose like no other. The way you use language to put across an idea, a question, a critique shows your skill.

I feel paralysed when in community endeavours,
People find it impossible to work on relationship building. Its a skill which no one gave them a TOR for.

So they fumble & stumble. They will be awkward, use direct & almost rude language & be unable to understand the insult their use of language causes.

Some golden rules
Never mistrust.

Starting from a place of mistrust gives a strong negative vibe. A business or charity trying to solve a problem isn't out there to hoodwink you.

This mentality backfires. Reduces credibility & creates mistrust on either side.

Trust
People are honest, generally.
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Apr 15, 2022
Times are extremely tough in Pakistan, especially for the daily wage earners, domestic workers, labour intensive low paid jobs.

Programs that distribute ration, pay medical bills & fee are critical subsidies.

Please reach out to support such endeavors.
Ration distribution is a major exercise carried out pan Pakistan by 100s of groups, registered NGOs & individuals.

Our support makes a difference.

Reach out to old homes, orphanages, free clinics, small schools. They are always low on resources.
I'm a huge believer in crowdsourcing goodwill.

Our generosity is not limited to finances, but I see our transformation in Ramzan to truly embody the spirit of giving.

Young kids collecting funds, distributing water, dates.

Our collective humanity carries Pak on its shoulders
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Apr 13, 2022
Raising funds for rations to be provided to 60 Christian families on Easter in Karachi

Please retweet this and call me how to support this.

Looking at my friends here to help
Read 27 tweets
Feb 19, 2022
These are some of the #education projects that I love.

Khudkaar run by @wardahn00r
(Digital skills school in Layyah, Punjab)

@sciencefuse I'm working with them i small way to fund something I love

@atomcamp & some of its science led programs. I see what they're trying to do.
The excellent experience I had early last year on @fatimarizwan led platform @airschoolonline is another education startup to keep a keen eye on.

There's @wardah 's UrduHour where she teaches diaspora children to converse in Urdu, looking to bridge the urdu/English divide
There's are so many individual endeavours like @gigglypundit creative writing course or @amnachaudhry03 writing course.

All beautiful interventions hoping to keep us curious.

Then @Cheese_Pakora adventures into the mountains.

These are all lovely minds, please support them
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Feb 18, 2022
That time of year when Pakistani men show their colours in their most vilest way.

I don't know agendas, but the fact that women in most desi houses are oppressed in the same of a pseudo religious context & remain achored to a patriarchal mindset needs to be voiced.

Let us talk
There will always be opinions, agendas, controversies but that doesn't take away from the systemic oppression women face daily.

At the workplace, we are sidelined, & spoken over.

We are paid less, not promoted, not given management or board seats.

We face harassment.
In public spaces, no Pakistani woman can escape the glare of men. Those piercing, debauchery filth you can you feel while you walk past.

Not one Pakistani woman in a public space has escaped cat calling, not been touch inappropriately.

We have no defenders of honour then.
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Jun 28, 2021
As a new immigrant I still view Canada with an outside in lens. I guess it takes time to fully internalise a culture, but Canada remains a mystery to me.

Could be attributed to the "timing" of our move or the unique circumstances that set in as a result of it.

#Immigration
Do all immigrants feel a disconnect to Canada? The infrastructure in the bigger cities is comparable to London, the busy-ness of it all, never ending chores, weekend getaways & retirement plans.

However, this is something desi people never experience.
We don't really plan, we don't have weekend getaways, our domestic life isn't so hectic. Our busy lives are a mix of work, life in imbalance, brought about by a crazy dependency on family relationships & toxic people around us.

When you immigrate you leave most of it behind.
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