He was the first born, his parents weren't educated but his father used to say his son will read all the book he couldn't read.
He sold some of his lands to ensure my cousin was a graduate.
ALL his salary went to his siblings, now this is the norm as that was what his father wanted, but he couldn't do anything for himself and he was evidently stagnant.
Time to marry, there was a problem, wifey wanted them to live in Lagos, cousin can't afford, he has load on his neck.
He was not going to be ungrateful though, he kept pushing.
They've made provisions for their unborn generation. I believe that should be the goal of parenting.
However, as a parent, you should know it is your responsibility to cater for this child and make them self sufficient without relying on you.
Give birth to children you can cater to adequately.
We can do better, have kids, create inheritance for them, make them sufficient, it will pass on to the next generation, the poverty cycle will be broken.
No one is saying children shouldn't take care of their parents.