It is obvious that those demanding the apology must believe that the mocking of this religious custom is wrong.
This is ridiculous.
This is how we decide why something is wrong, and if it is at all.
It isn't sufficient to merely declare that the thing said or done is "offensive".
This is a dead end.
Offence taken cannot be the criterion by which we judge actions or expressions.
Consider the Catholic doctrine of transubstantiation. Followers believe that the cracker and the wine turn literally, not metaphorically, in to the flesh and blood of Christ.
This is asinine.
The belief, and arising practice, that molecules can change when chewed and swashed (naturally ever-evasively from scientific detection), is so ridiculous that it's quite funny.
This is true, and it is so from every perspective.
(We are getting closer to the pertinent variable.)
Some Christians, for instance, were offended by Greggs portraying Jesus as a sausage roll during the Christmas season some time ago.
One also notices that there's no social penalty for declining to join the offended bandwagon.
The pertinent variable is the particular religion from which the custom being mocked derives.
Islam is again being singled-out for special privilege, namely the secular enforcement of blasphemy doctrines.
There must be no curtailment of the right to scrutinise, criticise or ridicule customs.
The question as to which side of history one would have liked to be on is also pertinent. Would you like to have been next to Giordano Bruno, or the inquisition?
But it also fails in practice.
Whatever I might say about transubstantiation, it is at least mostly benign (unlike some other Catholic doctrines).
I couldn't say this of the full veil with any sincerity.
It is an afront to the norms which bind society in an open contract of presumed accountability by identification.
Exchanges online descend into uncharitable spats much faster than in the real world, and this is no coincidence.
They are each compounded, however, with the stark and sinister understanding that the rules governing it apply to only one sex.
Practices worth discouraging must haev vehicles by which to discourage them.
Murray agrees, as would anyone, that more dialogue is warranted; but he asks how that dialogue should begin.
And here, we all stumble upon the unhappy fact that the rules of the game are being rigged to make this dialogue, which is so often declared as necessary, a very difficult affair indeed.
We must understand the implications of this line.
These moments in life, where one is forced by intellectual honesty to change one's mind, are worth cherishing.
The calls for apology fail in principle and practice, and we should pay attention to the path on which we embark.