When you don’t know how to Trust, your relationships will be shallow and conflicted – with yourself more than anyone.
No-one is exempt from the inner work.
Take responsibility for your cognitive investment. Is it worth it?
Be clear about how you’re going to deal with a possible betrayal, emotionally and otherwise. Imagine the best, but be prepared for the worst.
Know your lines in the sand.
Avoid trusting a person “in general”. Be specific about what you trust someone on and what you don't.
In relationships, the don'ts often are more important than the do's.
Understand that covert contracts exist only in your head. Make things explicit when something matters deeply to you.
Trust isn't about codependency, nor is it something you give once.
You trust people moment to moment, and you can take that trust away at any time. Be deliberate about it.
Work on improving yourself daily, and your trust will only become more valuable.
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