If you have a friend who’s doing super well at work, and is on their way to great things, they WILL lose touch with you temporarily, simply cuz they are their own biggest priority at the time.
Don’t resent them that. Talk when you can, else wish them well.
Don’t resent them that. Talk when you can, else wish them well.
“Aajkal toh terey paas time hi nahi hai hamaarey liye” is frankly one the most toxic things you can say to someone you claim to care about.
Celebrate FOR them, even if you can’t do it WITH them.
Celebrate FOR them, even if you can’t do it WITH them.
Din-raat ki mehnat karkey koi aagey nikla hai, toh usko waapas peechey drag matt karo. Clutter breaking isn’t easy, and you know nothing about another’s struggle, what it’s taken them to reach where they are.
Apney pyaar par condition hi lagaani hai toh kya faayda phir?
Apney pyaar par condition hi lagaani hai toh kya faayda phir?
Same logic applies to a fulfilling happy new relationship someone is in. “Oh you don’t have time for friends anymore”. Damn right I don’t, I’m investing all my positive energies into this new experience that’s bringing me joy, let me have this without feeling guilty please.
This thread is my learnings over the last few years only. I most certainly have been guilty of guilt tripping my own friends. Koi paidaishyi compassion ki moorat nahi hoon main.
What you can’t relate with makes you uncomfortable, how to go beyond that is the trick.
What you can’t relate with makes you uncomfortable, how to go beyond that is the trick.
