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ok my babes i have read EVERY one of your dms about casual sex with cis men and i just........................I HAVE SO MANY FEELINGS
first and foremost being that i will never have casual sex with a cis man again. NOPE JUST NOT INTERESTED ANY MORE. congratulations men on being so terrible you killed the hoe in me. truly uR a wonder
i can't reply to everyone individually but GOSH i did read all your stories and am sending you love

i am sorry we have all had such bad experiences with cazh sex!
some common thoughts that a LOT of you articulated

1) absolutely no oral sex happened in casual encounters, unless YOU pushed for it
2) many of you have fucked men who say that oral is reserved for a girlfriend????? OMG
3) a common complaint is that casual sex is treated like porn. like, the dudes are replicating porn poses sans the skill required to get you off
4) casual sex is often rougher than many of you would like it!!!
5) MOST COMMONLY - almost every single one of you said some version of this

"the sex is perfunctory. he's using me like a fuck doll when it's casual. like i'm just a hole. he's not touching me as if he's invested. he only wants to come. it's very disconnected and mechanical"
*sigh* yes. i know exactly what yall are talking about. and it fucking SUCKS
guys, just because the sex is casual doesn't mean you should be checked out of it like that!

IT'S A RICH HUMAN EXPERIENCE. you have to BE there you have to make eye contact touch her hair be sensual be sexy still. you are sharing it with another person
unfortunately the main gripe with casual sex seems to be that men aren't seeing women as PEOPLE

the same root problem as everything else
grim. very grim. anyway this seals it for me
no one night stands with cis men ever again. no casual sex. FUCK this i'm out i hate men they don't deserve to have sex tbh
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it's not about bad sex honestly it's kinda scary that you can read this and just think "it was bad sex'
bad sex is like....idk, let's say a dude is awkward in bed, your bodies don't fit together, or maybe he can't get it up and its embarrassing

i didn't write a story about bad sex. i wrote a story about a woman's nightmare
it's about the deep fundamental disconnect between men and women when it comes to sex like this, you know?

it has happened to me. i was nearly in tears. i hated everything that was occurring. it was one of the worst nights of my life
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another thing i'm figuring out is that dudes are fucking women poorly because they learned to fuck from porn
dude..........that porn............was made by men..................for men.......................and is not.................necessarily realistic..............and it is not advisable for you to try to replicate it, sans adult-performer skills..............
stuff that routinely happens in porn that you should NOT assume all women enjoy:

-choking
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somebody asked me the other day what the most surprising thing i've learnt about dating is and it was this:

men hate it when you're nice to them.they are absolutely allergic to Niceness in the early stage of dating. don't be nice
by nice i mean, you can't do shit like:

"hey, i was just thinking of you because i saw this article. btw, last night was so fun! can't wait to see you again ☺️"
oh my god can you imagine if you sent that text to a dude after like, two dates. lmao
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