We believe that we are fundamentally good people, and that it has not worked because some external factors don’t align. This is the issue.
Until this truth sinks, we’ll continue our self pampering.
At least I know how it happened to me. Truth be told, I had lived down 3 decades before I got to embrace this idea. It was the most painful realization of my adult life. It was the beginning.
Change starts where the lies stop. There’s no conspiracy against you that’s not against others, at least, most.
As we stretch, we realize how far below our potential we are operating.
They didn’t refuse to help, you didn’t ask the right way.
It always works when done right.
But I can understand if you disagree. I really can. I once did too, vehemently.