SRE's job is dialogue.
A senior executive will identify a need for some software service as part of a business strategy. That executive will give a manager some funding - headcount, "etc."
Time goes by, and everyone is happy and productive.
And nothing actually works like it was expected to.
They're stuck on a trolley problem.
So these services have launch failures.
But of course you never really say "no."
But that "no" is critical, because it creates dialogue.
In what ways can we expend small efforts - or include in some future expansion planning - improvements in these areas?
It's a dialogue, advancing the state of the art in reliable systems.
The other things a SRE team does for you; footprinting, taking ops interrupts, updating infrastructure - those are responsibilities which inform dialogue.
That's their job.