As a young man in my early 20s, I sometimes travelled to Colombo with my grandma's neighbour.
Myself, my aunt, his 2 kids (1 schooling, 1 employed) and him, driving.
He talked a lot and no one seemed interested in what he had to say except me.
One Monday in July, uncle has to head into work but the rumour mill is working overtime. His parents ask him not to go...
"It was like something out of a movie."
There were familiar shops burning, flaming tyres on the road, blackened things that vaguely look human, smoke everywhere...
He gets to office and not everyone is there. Some of the women are crying. Rumours are circulating of staff who have been killed.
Management hold an emergency meeting.
As everyone is stretched thin, Uncle volunteers to go see a few and Yogi.
He sees Yogi, squatting outside his house, on the road, wailing. There is a body not to far from him, covered in white cloth.
Men had blocked both ends of the lane. One end stood their ground, created a blockade. The other, went house to house, causing havoc.
They finally get to Yogi's (close to the end of the lane).
When day breaks, the men leave. They're laughing, patting each other on the backs and tell Yogi- "this is what Tamil whores deserve".
The boy checks on his mother, she's dead.
He goes into the house, brings out a bedsheet to cover her and then cries.
Alas, the next day, boy has checked himself out. Uncle goes to his house, it is empty, still a wreck.
That was the last time he ever saw Yogi...
It's quiet in the car, we're almost at our stop. Uncle says, "I don't blame the boy, something like that happens to me, I would do the same".
Do not be quick to hate, find productive ways to wrestle with your inner demons and stay strong.
In these dark times, we only really have each other.
Peace 🙏🏽