When a woman is having an affair with a man who her hindbrain acknowledges as an Alpha, it feels like cheating to her when she has sex with her Beta husband.
Her ‘loyalty’ shifts to the Alpha she’s cheating with because he’s her best option and she can’t afford losing him.
Her ‘loyalty’ shifts to the Alpha she’s cheating with because he’s her best option and she can’t afford losing him.
The starfish sex that married man does get is only had begrudgingly to allay suspicion until she can decide to choose the Alpha. Her affair becomes an implied commitment to her lover, so having sex with the husband is now ‘cheating’ on him. With every lay she feels,..
feels worse, resents the husband, manifest her contempt for him for not seeing the signs, compares him to her lover and sees the difference in herself with him and her lover. She comes to resent her decision to pair with the husband before she met the Alpha.
Most Beta husbands rationalize this dynamic away because the Blue Pill teaches them to believe women and trust in “open communication” to solve the whole thing. This only exacerbates that woman’s resentment of him. His Blue Pill idealism becomes an impediment to her,..
splitting up with her so she can move on to life with her Alpha lover.
