@trying2help Although what you say is somewhat true, meaning, when you don't know any better, the changes that take hold, shape your perception. This is only wholly true for kids who've never experienced anything else, but not for adults with long lives that provided plenty of good 1/x
@trying2help relations in the world. Adults have comparison experience and laws they can turn to however unpleasant that may be or, they can quit. An abusive boss certainly isn't a reason to say I could no longer tell right from wrong. Meaning specifically in her case; It doesn't 2/x
@trying2help excuse the abuse, terror, separation of children from parents WITH NO TRACKING OR RE-UNIFICATION PLANS, no medical care to speak of, girls hidden away as prey for on going sexual abuse, kidnapping and adoption sales of immigrant babies & toddlers to White Christian 3/x
@trying2help Families all la Betsy DeVos, and crimes against humanity she committed against all immigrants. MY GOD, IT TAKES A SPECIAL KIND OF SOCIOPATH TO DO THAT and one that would/could easily make their crimes about how victimized they were...
Can you say DARVO defense? 4/x
Can you say DARVO defense? 4/x
@trying2help And people buy it because of course those who've been abused are victims and Go on to victimize others right??? WRONG. Let me tell you how that myth got started....The majority of imprisoned folks when treated, tested etc revealed a history of abuse....
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@trying2help But they left out the most important statistics on abuse: meaning, within the public domain for psych treatment and within the general population THE MAJORITY OF FOLKS WHO'VE BEEN ABUSED, DO NOT GROW UP TO ABUSE OTHERS. In fact, they have a tendency to fall victim to 6/x
@trying2help abusers more often because UNLIKE those who've never been abused, they don't recognize the signs as readily because it feels normal to them.
She's not a victim here, she wanted her job and the power that came with it which mattered more to her that committing genocidal crimes 8/x
She's not a victim here, she wanted her job and the power that came with it which mattered more to her that committing genocidal crimes 8/x
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against humanity....but she'll take up the victim role to rehab her image....JUST LIKE A SOCIOPATH and no remorse or coming forward to spill the beans as a way of making amends.....She's a woman with an ABUSIVE MALE BOSS whose now crying abuse after 8/x
against humanity....but she'll take up the victim role to rehab her image....JUST LIKE A SOCIOPATH and no remorse or coming forward to spill the beans as a way of making amends.....She's a woman with an ABUSIVE MALE BOSS whose now crying abuse after 8/x
@trying2help horrendously using her position to abuse others...In the age of Me Too, she'll likely get away with it. But make no mistake here:
ITS TOTAL DARVO BULLSHITTERY
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ITS TOTAL DARVO BULLSHITTERY
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