Many rich Naija guys from big cities r often so used to women throwing themselves at their money & showering them with fake praises that if you are not interested, it makes them confused. If you're not careful, their egos may be activated to intensify their "porshue" mode...
...Here are some ways to maintain sanity when people are porshueing: 1. Stay with a respectable family. If you can't live with one, visit them regularly in your free time. The less time you have alone the better. 2. Make your own money & focus on that to avoid "gift" temptation..
...3. Build your life around what you are passionate and gives you a sense of purpose and meaning. This will keep you going when you are lonely. Do not fall into the trap of building a life around one person only who you can't be without. 4. Take time out to pray at night/early..
...morning and always extend it with supplications to help your heart be cleansed and rise above superficial things. 5. Be very selective in your company. Keep to good people or keep to yourself. 6. Turn off dm access for most & tell yourself you don't have to respond to every dm
...7. Create your schedule around your own priorities. If a suitor you dislike demands your time, refer to your schedule and don't be afraid of saying No. 8. Learn what emotional blackmail and emotional abuse is: understand that anyone who resorts to these is toxic even with $.
...And toxic people will weaken and destroy you until you are able to get away. The only resistance is avoidance. 9. Know that many wealthy men know exactly how much they are spending to court you. That is your price. Raise your value and let him show you what money can't buy...
...If he loses interest in having to show his character or depth of conversation, ability to listen, granting you quality time, working with his own hands to assist you or your family, etc., then you will come to know his own worth in your immaterial life.
