Thread by @fermi_davies

The Stupidity Of The Chase
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Once upon a time, I wooed a girl. After a month and more, she affirmatively told me that she wasn't interested. It was a strong NO. I pushed and pushed but had to throw in the towel.

After two weeks of quitting the chase, she called me on phone and said she was now interested that all I went through was just the protocol I needed to pass. She said this in a very arrogant and appalling manner.

Immediately, I sternly told her I wasn't interested anymore. And that was it. According to her, I broke her heart. Lol..

This practice of forming difficult by ladies to be perceived as valuable is very wrong.

It is very erroneous for a woman to attach her value to the many hurdles men jump to win their heart. In fact, it is low self esteemed women that play hard to get.

Real women are hard to get. They don't play it.

Now, ladies. 
If a guy approaches you, asks you out and you like him, flow along, lead him on. 
Stop being sheepish. Any man that treats you condescendingly because you gave in ‘easily’ is an immature boy!

Your value has nothing to do with how long it took before you began a relationship with a man.

See, some of us are not ready for those childish games. Straight to the point.

Now, yes, there are cases when a woman sincerely needs time to make a decision, but spell it out.

Tell him you need time. Tell him you're not ready but you like him. It's better.

It's better than bluntly telling a guy NO when you know you have a thing for him.

Some of us are not pests. We are not jobless. A stern, grave, and blunt continuous NO is enough to keep us off ever making advances.

How do you expect a guy to know you like him when everything about how you talk to him and treat him is totally discouraging?

Women, you guys can be very funny.

A lady once told me that she liked a guy but she wanted him to wait for 5 months, but he couldn't. She said he was weak and unmanly.

Lol.

See, some ladies will keep meeting wrong men because of the wrong parameters they use to evaluate men.

Now, because a man was the most persistent and patient in wooing you doesn't mean he's the right person.

I was shocked when a guy once told me that he wooed a lady for three years just to have sex with her and leave.

I know a lot of women will drool over a guy who's been persistent for few months sef, talk more of 3 years, thinking he's so authentic

Sometimes the right man is impatient. Yes. 
Because sometimes the devil will be patient enough with you as long as he is assured...

...that he'll pounce on you finally.

If you like a guy, don't play all these protocols. You're not a lost fowl that men should be chasing. I mean, you're an adult. It's either you want it or not.

Sadly, a lot of woman have lost good men because of this nonsense.

Finally, always remember you're not the only woman in the world. The man who loves you today and you're playing around with him, will soon find another woman, maybe, better woman who'll love him as well.

Be straight!
Time is going.

Or won't you like to marry few Saturdays from today?

Time we are supposed to spend in the relationship; grooming it, we are spending it still chasing you. Are you a rabbit?

Please think about it. 

CULLED.