I am concerned.
It is a real issue.
It happened to me.
I’m a presidential history fan.
Living in DC you have the chance to witness history.
It was a bitter cold January and I waited outside with lots of other history teachers and fans for entry to watch the trial.
I became friends with a high school history teacher over those freezing cold days, huddling, waiting, getting in to the gallery, watching the trial.
Then we spotted Sen. Storm Thurmond, the notorious segregationist and vile homophobe who chaired the trial in his role as longest serving Senator.
I resisted at first due to the vileness of Thurmond and his hatred of everything I believe in.
But, my friend said the magic words. “It’s history!!!”
Me: Lisa Talmadge
Thurmond: I was Married to a Talmadge!
Me: I know, no relation.
(See: vile segregationists Eugene and Herman)
We pose for pic.
Thurmond puts his arm around me as one does.
Breast grabs, butt grabs, comments, waist grabs so common you just shrugged and moved on.
Then women learned WE DONT HAVE TOLERATE THIS BULLSHIT.
0ur bodies are not for anyone to get a thrill off of unless WE SAY YES.
“Thurmond’s breast grab” is the least of my experiences with men who think they can do anything to women.
But, it’s not nothing.
A United States Senator took advantage of a moment like a practiced predator machine.
He knew exactly where to put his hand.
He knew exactly when to drop and squeeze.
He was showing me he had control and power.
He was showing me I meant nothing.
He even had a “joke” about it involving David Copperfield.
Folks, politicians do this.
Women aren’t lying.
If you think we are YOU are the problem.
#metoo
I was a fan, but NO ONE is irreplaceable in the US Senate.
And NO SENATOR should be given a pass on sexual misconduct in 2018.
How can anyone defend sexual misconduct by one of 100?
What about the young first time organizer or vol who meets a Senator for the first time?
Should she walk away molested? Or impressed?
No child should be kissed, touched or sniffed by an unrelated old man who thinks it’s cute and fine.
It’s not.
And Stop pushing Biden 2020.
Let’s name the vile segregationist pos who switched to Republican over civil rights correctly:
Senator Strom Thurmond
If you believe me just because Thurmond was a vile racist homophobe that’s a problem.
“Nice guys” assault too.