I have some thoughts.
1/
My Year 7s today reported that Primary teachers had banned the word "said" to describe speech. They had encouraged students to "uplevel" SAID to ASKED, ENQUIRED, EXCLAIMED, SHOUTED, CRIED, EXPOSTULATED etc.
This is really silly advice.
2/
Uplevelling every SAID to a more colourful verb is like changing every adjective for a metaphor. It soon gets annoying.
3/
1. It should be obvious from the situation, the description and the words what the speaker's tone of voice is.
AND
2. Often you don't need a verb after the speech at all.
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"Go away!" shouted Telemachos.
"How will I get all these suitors out of my house?" asked Penelope.
"I don't know, mum. I wish Dad would get back to Ithaca," replied Telemachos.
6/
Telemachos stood in the doorway, his anger rising at the crowd of suitors until he couldn't hold it in. "Go away!" he shouted.
Penelope laid a hand on his shoulder, but her voice was weary. "How will I get these suitors out of my house?"
"I don't know, mum."
7/
"Asked" is often redundant if it's a question.
"Replied" is often redundant if it's obvious they're replying.
"Said" is often redundant full stop.
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Telemachos said, "I wish Dad would get back to Ithaca."
or a colon:
Telemachos screamed: "Get out of my house!"
They both always seem terrible. Avoid.
9/
I shouldn't have to wait until AFTER I've read the speech to know how it was suppoed to be said.
"Why are all these suitors here?" asked Telemachos, angrily.
I should already KNOW that he's angry before I read his speech.
10/
"How will I get all these suitors out of my house?" sighed Penelope, ARRANGING her face into a mask of determination.
(since I elaborated on it, I decided "sighed" was allowable)
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Goodnight!
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