But I've taken my last 'patriarchy hurts men equally' lecture from men who can't find the toilet cleaner.
Seriously. Stop it.
Benefitting men is its raison d'etre.
That doesn't mean I don't love my brother, stupid.
It's calling out your fellow men - your friends - for their rape apologism; their sexist comments. It's actually doing 50% of the unpaid domestic and emotional labour.
Men who claim that unhappiness makes for a magic eraser, are not men ready to let that power and privilege go.