Recently finished Influence by Robert Cialdini.
Many people say it is one of the most important books they've read. When Charlie Munger first read it, he sent Cialdini an A share of Berkshire b/c he was so grateful. That is worth 300k today.
Here's my synopsis...
We all have automatic responses programmed into us that can be taken advantage of. It is through these psychological vulnerabilities that the marketer, or anyone really, can prey.
The books goes over the 7 main vulnerabilities and how you can deal with them.
1. Contrast (not explicitly a tool, but it qualifies)
2. Reciprocation
3. Commitment and Consistency (lumped together b/c similar)
4. Social Proof
5. Liking
6. Authority
7. Scarcity
After seeing something expensive, the other options seem cheap.
"when a man enters a clothing store w/ the express purpose of purchasing a suit, he will almost always pay more for whatever accessories he buys if he buys them after the suit purchase than before."
More professions than just clothiers use this tactic as well.
Real estate agents: take you to some not-so-nice houses before showing you the great one.
Car salespeople: what's an added GPS and a back-up camera when you're already spending 25k?
Give and ye shall receive.
Krishnas were having a hard time increasing donations. What if, in public places, they offered people a free gift of a flower for nothing in return? Donations soon skyrocketed.
Wonder why free e-books are popular?
These work "like most other forms of automatic responding, it offers a shortcut through the density of modern life. Once we have made up our minds about an issue, stubborn consistency allows us a luxury: we really don't have to think."
When we don't know what to think, we look to others to determine our actions.
Wonder why websites have so many testimonials?
Wonder why sit-coms use fake laugh tracks even though we all know they are fake?
Here's how to prevent "pluralistic ignorance" like the case with Kitty Genovese.
- Choose one person and speak directly to them. Get rid of all ambiguity.
Let's say you're in a car accident. Point directly at someone and they will comply.
Ways to increase liking:
- Compliments (needs to explanation)
- Familiarity (ever wonder how the used car salesman always knows someone from where you're from?)
- Association (weathermen are more popular when the sun is shining even though they can't control it)
We are more likely to comply with authority figures.
The famous Stanley Milgram Teacher/Learner experiment reveals the power of authority.
- Volunteers were ordered to give electric shocks to another person in the room next door by "the Teacher."
(experiment continued)
- 65% of people administered a deadly dose to their peers.
- Granted, the peers were actors pretending to writhe in pain but the volunteers didn't know that.
65%!!! Talk about submitting to authority.
We want what we can't have.
Ever wonder why websites have timers and "limited supply"?
Ever wonder why you wanted something more when you were turned down?
Or the Supreme phenomenon?
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Scarcity also ties into social proof. Is something is scare that means other people think it is valuable.
Remember, when we don't know the value of something, we look to others.
Sound like the way stocks are valued in most cases?
This is a must read for anyone interested in business. This is a big-time #Lindy book. Enjoy!
Thanks for reading 😄
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