1: 🤔Alhamdulillah for everything, including the humble ability to thank Him.
Sometimes 1 tweet, 1 word, 1 look makes all the difference, inspiring one to be introspective, to reexamine stances in the faith, of the faith.
When someone says barren, you FEEL it.
In Jahiliyyah, a man could say to his wife “you are like my mother” or “you are like my mother’s back”...
Now for those who dont know much about pre-islamic culture/history..
But in Jahiliyyah culture, those words shattered a woman’s life. Those words meant that a man had not only divorced a woman but divorced her in a cruel..
Aisha’s RA tells us how powerful the words were in their time; that when Khawla RA came to SAW pleading about Zihaar, the entire household was weeping, pleading..
Words can hurt.
Now reflect on the very instructive way the Quran addresses zihar. First it gives a plain kind of statement: ~your wives cannot be like your mothers, because your mothers are those that give birth to you (as in"duh").
First, it banishes the use of zihaar as a way of divorce thus ending its profound impact on the psyche, on women, and on society.
Listen again: free a slave or fast 2 straight months. That expiation is similar to that of mistakenly TAKING A LIFE! All because of ~6 words.
That’s the Quran’s way of emphasizing the notion that how we make others feel is important; what & how we say things matters
Consider Zakariya AS & Ibrahim AS both of whom were childless deep in their old age, barren by their societal standards. But Quran points out a lesson to us: both never lost hope
The point: Quran tells us that a muslim is ever hopeful...
As muslims, is it really befitting of us to use words on other muslims, that could hurt or cause despair?