Thread by @priya_ebooks

it's fine to not know what you want but my experience is that men invariably muddy the waters

https://twitter.com/DaJaBrow/status/1136416112562843648

if you're banging someone, and you don't know what you want, don't start acting like you're dating them! don't play hot and cold it fucks w/ people's heads

the stereotype is that women can't have sex without catching feelings

but i think it would be more fair to say that women catch feelings BECAUSE men often muddy the waters of casual sex

what is "muddying the waters"?

this dude i was banging once turned to me, caressed my face, and whispered: "you know it's just us against the world now. me and you. you and me, always"

me: ...bro we hook up after the club at 1 AM. i've never seen your face in the daytime....

lmao that was such a ridiculous example that i just laughed but! i do think that men are sometimes reckless with how they treat casual sex partners

either there's no respect (kicking them out afterward) or they, like, say these extravagant things/lead them on

JUST BE CHILL AND NORMAL FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!! try not to say things you don't mean!! don't like, make hollow gestures! you can see how that would mess with people, right?

and then, when your partner asks you what this is, after 4 months of banging, you're vague "oh, let's just see what happens. it could go anywhere"

could it
could it
COULD ITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

no, it could not. sorry to be cynical. but after an extended period of time passes, it's not going anywhere. you know it, so don't keep people on the hook indefinitely