- “[consent’s] conceptual thinness has been remedied by increasingly more robust, sometimes ridiculous redefinitions of consent as enthusiastic, imaginative, creative yes-saying.” Meh redefs aren’t Bad but we should be careful w/ loading terms too hard.
- making consent primary in these convos obfuscates / doesn’t address how even consensual sex can be awful
EXACTLY. WELCOME TO ME YELLING ABOUT WHY CONSENT AS THE SOLE MEASURE OF IF A BDSM SCENE OR RELATIONSHIP IS OK OR NOT = A TRASH MEASURE. 📣