At that age, I didn’t know how to process it. Though I was born and raised in the U.S., I assumed where I belonged was “back in Korea.”
It couldn’t have been because of how I acted because I ate like “everyone else,” talked like “everyone else,” and did what “everyone else” did.
But more, it communicates a lack of humility and an abundance of pride that you have a monopoly on how things should be - on who should be included and who should be excluded.
Sadly, you see this within Christian spaces as well.
But always, it rests in an unwillingness to change so others can experience belonging.
Worse, they find all sorts of ways to justify their hegemony.
- foreigners
- Asian Americans
- Middle Eastern Americans
- Latino Americans
- African Americans
- Eastern Europeans with accents