Why can't we just be kind, and allow that maybe the existence of transgender people and intersex people "proves" the existence of a "third sex", or that "sex is a spectrum"?
Because:
2/ Children/young people must be protected from ethically unsound/experimental medicalisation and ideological brainwashing
There is no agreed scientific basis for someone having the mind of someone of the opposite sex, or being born in the wrong body."
When intersex features exist these indicate a medical condition.
Factual attributes are not assigned.
Intersex is not same as transgender.
See graph by @swipewright (he had to make the graph that tall for the 0.02% intersex category to even show up as a bar 1 pixel thick).
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12476264
The existence of DSDs does not prove that there is a range, or spectrum of sexes.
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