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Men are success objects.

So when they base their entire lives on their success, they base it on:

- Wife?
- Kids?
- House?
- Car?
- Job / Career?

These are a man's baseline merits to society.

So what happens when one or more of these falter?

A man loses himself.
He's to have a wife.

Society says he needs to get married to gain social status.

Being single for too long makes him either a creep, a player, or a loner.

When you get a wife, a door opens to other things.
He has to have kids.

He needs to be able to be a father.

He gets funny looks from family and friends, potential grandparents, and potential aunts and uncles when he hasn't had a kid.

"I want a grand child!"
House.

The size of a man's house determines his status.

You have to have 5 bedrooms for those kids, you need more space to entertain, you need to show off your big house to your jealous friends.

And you need to furnish it with the best furniture. We have people to impress!
Car.

What fun is a good, old fashioned sedan?

You need a mini-van for those kids, an SUV for the weather, you have friends to impress with your new BMW convertible.

You need to provide social proof that you belong on this caste level.
Job.

No matter the misery, you gotta bring home the bacon.

The kids need clothes, the wife wants to go out with her friends, you want a new flat screen TV.

You are the major source of income. You need to have a good job and you need to do the work.

Checks need writing.
In all of this, a man defines himself.

He's not defined by his interests, hobbies, or other endeavors.

His legacy is what he can afford.

And that's sad.
Ask yourself, Men....

If you aren't bringing home a check, what value are you to anyone?

Will your wife truly love you if you decide to quit your job?

Will you be able to keep your kids if you aren't paying for their well being?

What are you worth?

It's about $.
Think about it.

Your whole life, as a man, is determined by the amount of numbers on a signed piece of paper.

And if you aren't bringing that in, what good are you to anyone?
And if you, as a man, cannot provide solid financial sustenance, you can't truly have any of these things below.

Think about that.

A man is defined by his earning power.

A man is defined by his work.

If a man doesn't work, he can't possibly provide any value.

Or can he?
Men are valued for their abilities to:

- Protect
- Provide
- Produce
- Procreate
- Procure

They have to do all of these or they are not considered helpful to society.
So, when women wanted to take the reigns through the Women's Lib movement, Sexual Revolution, etc, many men put down the reigns.

They were tired of being on all the time.

They were tired of being success objects.

They were tired of holding the line with no rewards.
And society told them it was okay.

Sure, we need men to hold the line every day, but you can take a break, play some fantasy football, eat some snacks, watch TV.

You can put down the gun.

Other men have your back and you can let off the gas of your life.
Women took on a leadership role that they "thought" they wanted.

They wanted to be like men.

Hence, the rise of feminism.

Equality is great until you have to do the work, and women can't do the work men can do.

They aren't built for it.

But we still let men out to pasture.
So, as the decades rolled on, men became more and more disconnected, and women took more of a leadership role.

Men were lauded for their ability to provide, the pack mule of the family. It was about what he did more than who he was.

The numbers were their value.
Nowadays, men are just glorified breeding stock.

You aren't a man until you increase the size of checks that you cut.

And we need to get back to where men not only are success objects, but also are revered for their other contributions.
But, until we do that, men will be lost.

Lost because they've been told that they value is in what money they provide, and not what they can truly provide for the world.

It's why men are taken for granted, and if we continue down this road, we will become more irrelevant.
Feminists want us for breeding stock and to fund their exploits.

Feminists need men with guns to push their agendas.

Men with guns working against their own best interests.

One day, the men with guns won't fight against other men.

That's why feminism will lose.
It was never about equality.

Feminism is about being angry with God for being born a woman.

And telling men all the problems they have, the things we have that they don't.

Feminism is jealousy.
But why be jealous?

Pick up a shovel and start digging with us, ladies.

If men have it so damn good, it's time to expect more from feminists who decry that men get "all the breaks".

They won't step up, because it's easier to demonize and shame men.

And men don't get breaks.
Men are a world minority. That's right, we are approximately 49% of the population.

Yet, feminists want to be treated as if they are the minority.

They rail against men and their manspreading, mansplaining, and all things male.

They fail to see that they need us.
Men should not be taken for granted.

No one should.

Each gender (yes, the two genders) provides the other with things that neither can do.

Complimentary, instead of adversarial.

But feminism ceases to exist if they accept that role.
Feminism needs willing men to fund their war against men.

So, guilt and shame press the buttons of the machine so feminists can continue to say how things are so unfair and men are the problem, even though we had no say in how we were born.

Because the checks need cashing.
Feminism has never been about equality.

It has always been about power, money, and revenge.

And it's roots are in jealousy, envy, and retribution for a generation of men who don't exist anymore.

But if you have a penis, you're on notice.
And even if they get all they want, feminists will never be happy, because victim hood pays too well.

Men,
You'd do well to remember that.

No matter how much you give, it will never be enough.

And you will never do enough to satisfy them.
Feminists want equality at the EXPENSE of men, not as an equal partner.

You have to take away something from someone to give it to someone else, which is why feminism's roots so align with Communism and Socialism.
Men need to retake their mantle, and they will because feminism runs on hate, fear, shame, and blame.

When people start to understand these basic facts, they will understand that feminism is a grift designed to take revenge on a gender who had no part in any of their grievances.
A man is not determined by numbers on a piece of signed paper.

He is determined by his abilities, his drive, his convictions, and his legacy.

A man's legacy shouldn't be a bank statement.
But, it is until it changes, it is what it is.

Men will still be judged by their numbers, and women will still be judged by their beauty.

And this will not change.

Because as human beings, we can't shed biology.

We can't shed our roles as man and woman.

Nor should we.
But society is telling us:

- Certain aspects of masculinity are bad, while lauding all of femininity as good.
- Empowered women are the real leaders of this world
- Women are just like men in all ways
- Men are evil oppressors who develop ways to hold women back
And yet, we know for a fact that:

- Masculinity is healthy, and there are aspects that need to be accepted and dealt with in a healthy manner
- Men and women lead together in their own ways
- Women and men are different but important
- Feminists are the oppressors.
The bullied have become the bullies.

And they aren't going away without a fight.

No one is less than anyone else, regardless of gender, race, creed, religion, or otherwise.

Feminists truly believe that men are second class citizens who need to be controlled.
So men continue on.

We are made to feel bad that we are men.

Made to feel bad about completely normal behaviors that are deemed "toxic" by the societal, feminine group think.

And men can't deal, so they take their own lives.
7 out of 10 suicides are men.

Because we are "bad".

Our behaviors are deemed "unhealthy".

Our roles are deemed "not needed".

Feminism makes the rules, and they make sure that there is no way men can possibly follow them.
Institutions are trying to "reprogram" men to just be women.

Because women are infallible.

They are sweet, kind, emotional, and the pinnacle of virtue.

Feminists are trying to make men like women because they believe that they are better.

And truly, they aren't.
So men do what they're told.

We go to work.

We stop manspreading, mansplaining, and we stop trying to be men.

We try to be what feminists want us to be.

And if we try to complain, fight, or demand they stop, it's blame, shame, and the victim game.

Men's rights don't matter..
"You've had it so good for so long, men."

Who? ME?

I haven't had it good, I've had to work for everything I have and then some.

Men don't have it good, feminists just want to have their cake and eat it too, because reasons.
My personal goals aren't to take rights away from women.

My personal goals aren't to subjugate women.

But I'm the bad guy because I have a penis.

And if feminists continue to rile about how unfair their world is (and it isn't unfair), men will continue to be under attack.
My goal is to provide a voice for men who are afraid to speak for themselves.

Men are more than a paycheck, they are more than a shot of sperm, they are more than breeding stock.

Men are needed in this world and are just as important as women.

Never forget that.
Men matter.

We aren't "toxic".

We aren't breeding stock.

We aren't merely a provider or a source of income.

We are more than that.
Men are builders.
Men are protectors.
Men are fathers.
Men are husbands.
Men are hunters.
Men are fighters.
Men are philosophers.
Men are players.
Men are leaders.

Men are everything that women aren't, and that's amazing.

And it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Men aren't oppressors.
Men aren't evil.
Men aren't toxic.
Men aren't useless.
Men aren't breeding stock.

Men are men.

We are what we were born as, feminists.

So are you.

Your beef isn't with men, it's with God.
Feminism is a mental disorder.

Trying to bring down a gender because of how they were born.

I think that's a bad thing when we do it to other people, right?

But it's okay to do it to men because they've "had it so good."
In essence, it's okay to do things to men because "they've done it to us for so long."

Because it's not about equality, it's about oppressing the supposed oppressors.

The men who had nothing to do with any of this shit are the enemy.

The "patriarchy."
So, men have decided to take their ball and go home.

They go MGTOW.

If men are so bad, try doing it without them.

And the funny thing?

They can't. Feminists need men.

They just refuse to admit it.
So on behalf of the 49% of men in this world, you can stick your guilt and shame of men where the sun doesn't shine.

Men aren't the problem.

The problem is that feminism can't take the fact that they were born women.
Women have had to fight for basic rights.

But men have worked to grant them those rights. Men understood what they were doing was wrong.
But men, modern, Western men aren't the ones holding them back anymore.

It's themselves.

They have all the rights afforded.

But they want more.

They want to demonize men.

They won't ever be satisfied until they can be born men.

And the laws of Mother Nature don't allow that
Men are more than a paycheck.
Men are more than a bucket list of successes
Men are more than their jobs

Men must define themselves as more than a 5 point checklist of what society deems their worth.

Men are more than that.
Feminism wilts in the face of an empowered man.

He doesn't fall for the bullshit of his basic traits being bad.

He stands up, faces and stares down women who want to take his rights away.

Men are here to stay.

And we're tired of your shit.

Get used to it, feminists.
And men?

If you are portrayed as a success object, go out and be the best damn success object you can be, but do it on your terms.

Enjoy your success and be that object, but also remember that you are more than your bank statement.

Get out there and plant your flag.
Every man wants a legacy.

You can be that legacy.

Society can't tell you what to do.

You must forge your own path and never apologize for burning that path.

Get to work.

You've got a legacy to promote.
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