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Black women...its homophobic AND biphobic to not date a man just because he's bisexual.
Follow me for a second.
"He shoulda told me"
If hes not a virgin, its assumed that he's been with other people.
Would you be making this much noise if he told you he'd been with other girls before you?
Why does he need to SPECIFICALLY tell you he's been with men before you?
"He shoulda told me now that we're serious."
Why? He's with you. And if hes with a man AFTER you that's not your concern. So whaaaaaaaat exactly do you gain from knowing that?
You're only bothered by dating bi men if deep down, you believe these (wrong) things:
1) Bisexual men arent "safe" to date cause men who sleep with men will automatically give you HIV.
2) Bisexual men are lying and they really gay on the low.
And that sis, is homophobic.
Period.
Or
3) He might "leave you for a man". 🙄
Straight men could break up with you and decide to date another woman. So why is dating a man after you so much worse?
"SEE I KNEW HE WAS REALLY GAY"
Sis, read #2 on the last tweet.
"NA. ITS ABOUT HONESTY"
Oh ok. Lay out your sexual history for him then. Not just your ex.
Also tell him about the group chat you're in with your straight friends where you put the 👀 emoji on all the stud lesbian pics.
But forreal. We watched that one episode of Girlfriends and those two Oprah interviews and now we carry all these stereotypes about gay and bi men. And when your "preferences" come from stereotypes, its time to grow up.
Work through the biphobia and homophobia.
Work through it.
So...hit dogs are hollerin in my mentions.
I'm talking to Black women cause its been time to discuss this. Just because we Black doesn't mean we can do no wrong. And homophobia and biphobia is wrong.
I don't have any problem engaging in REAL dialogue. Real questions.
But if all you bringing to the table is a tantrum about "it's a preference"? And nothing else?
Do that mediocre shit on your own page.
Ima just ignore you and talk to the big kids.
BEFORE I MUTE. SINCE THIS KEEPS COMING UP:
Black women, like anyone else, are MUCH more likely to acquire STIs from your own sexual group. Meaning Black heterosexual men.
Get tested no matter who you dating. Please!
"I don't date bi men" is not a sexual health plan.
Its not.
ESPECIALLY YOUNGER BLACK WOMEN.
"That's bi men and DL Black men"
Dont let Twitter and TV have you thinking only Black LGBTQ people are transmitting STIs. So you okay. NO.
"Safe sex" is not "sex with a straight man". Get tested and communicate with your partner.
Please do that.
More ppl are getting it than not obviously. Im good yall.
PS- I hadnt watched that #LoveIsBlind clip. I had no idea what y'all were referencing. 🤣
But I watched it just now.
The "bitches like you" part was not necessary. 😬
But he was right and Im sad he had to go through that.
"Yall tryna push your views on us!"
Heterosexual ppl write books, twitter threads, PREACH WHOLE SERMONS, on why LGBTQ ppl should be straight. Whooping lil boys for wearing makeup. Kicking kids out the house for they "lifestyle".
Wheres the "dont tell ppl who to date" energy then?
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