This is not my story. It didn’t happen to me.
It was told to me by someone I trust. #IBelieveHer.
This story did not take place in Alberta.
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“…and then he started forcing himself on me.
I did not want this.
I tried to push him back.
He didn’t stop.
I did not want this.
He kept pushing.
I didn’t think he was going to stop.
So I decided to change my strategy...
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"I knew he wouldn’t be so pushy if I got him off.
A håndjøb. I knew how.
It was better than…
…it was better than the alternative…
I did not want that.
As soon as he relaxed,
I got up,
and got out of there.”
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I’m telling you this story now because it is possible to misconstrue actions initiated by a victim as "consensual.”
The person in the story above engaged in “sexual foreplay” to protect themselves from worse, during a sexual assault.
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The victim felt like they were in a very dangerous position. They did what they felt they needed to do to escape.
Again, the story I shared here is unrelated to the actions of Sean Chu, but I kept thinking about it.
About how both victims felt under threat.
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When Sean Chu's actions were investigated, ** he was believed ** by fellow police officers because of the "intimate details" he provided about the nature of the encounter.
Without knowing exactly who is buying homes, we can’t be certain…
“A pair of [2020] reports say Canada is undergoing a "K-shaped recovery," with working-class Canadians going deeper into debt while those at the top prosper.”
A few months ago I went to the ceremony to honour #215children that were found at a residential school site. Since then thousands more have been discovered.
Here is a thread of videos from that day that I had not shared previously. #OrangeShirtDay
Singing from the drum circle.
A moment of silence.
Many in the crowd were wearing orange shirts that day.